Originally Posted by sinfinity

Not every girl wants a relationship with the guy she is interested in fucking, though.

Originally Posted by Stormin10

True, but i dont know many that dont....

Originally Posted by Nomad88

Actually I'm currently in a semi-temporary living situation in California and am sleeping with a guy who I knew from the moment I met him was nice, funny, had some attractive qualities, smart, caring, gentle (in the right ways, rough in the right ways too) but partially due to what he and I want out of relationships and the time I intend to spend here we knew immediately nothing would come of it. But we both really enjoy sex. We exchange a few emails/texts throughout the week just to check in. And around three times a week I come over, we cook dinner, talk about what's new, exchange funny anecdotal stories, and fuck. A lot.

I don't know a whole lot about him and that's the way I like it. If I e-mail him and I'm not feeling well he comes over and smokes me out...(oh did I mention I smoke the ganj?) and goes about his business. If we knew more about eachother that's where the problem would begin. For him- I like just fucking him and DON'T want a relationship, but if I knew him better my feelings would be involved....therefore TROUBLE!

Originally Posted by Dreama

See, I could only sleep with a person that I knew and trusted, though that doesn't always mean I'd have to be emotionally involved moreso than one is involved with any friend. My husband and I have had sexual interactions with another couple who are also our great friends. Nothing has ever gotten weird, etc-we talked extensively about what we wanted out of our interactions, and what we did not want, limitations, etc. In the end, I trust them enough to be in that position, and that's what made it work for us. So, it's cool to see how people can be so different. ^_^