Well, I think that if you're going to have a FWB type of thing, you actually have to be her friend-and respect her enough to talk to her about what you think. I also wouldn't dump her as a friend if that is not what she would like to do. If you do this, it makes you seem shallower than shallow. Just get comfortable with her, talk to her, and as I said, be her friend. And definitely express how you feel on this issue. mention you're not ready for anything serious-and see how she reacts. Take it slow!
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