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Old 11-13-09   #1 (permalink)
Ghost Man
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I just want my friend for sex.

I just got out of a long relationship with my Ex.
I'm at the point where I don't want to date but casually date.
I work with a lot of people my age and younger.
I just met a female friend about 2 weeks ago and I think she either likes me or has a crush on me.
We were texting one night and i told her how I did not go out with my buddies and I ended up staying. She said I should of asked her and she would of gone. So I know at this point that I can ask her to hang out with me and she will go. So I made it sound like no big deal and so I invited her to hang out. We went to a grab pie and watch a movie. I have never hung out with her just the two of us. In fact the first and last time we hung was with other friends.
Anyways, we walked a lot and I made her laugh and she got close to me. After the night I took her home and she gave me a hug like any other friend would do.
On the way home I did not want to say that "we should do this again" cuz I don't want her to think that I want to date her. But I think I have messed up by now and I don't know how point it out that I would like to sleep with her but not as BF/GF thing.
What can I ask her so that I can lead her to the different direction?
We are young, she is 20 and I am 22.
I have slept with 4 girls. 3 were past Gf and one was a fling that the girl started.
I hope I don't get bashed for this.
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