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Originally Posted by dwj21  i am totally in your situation. pretty much the same exact thing. i know stress has a lot to do with it because we are in some financial dire straits, but we do have a roof over our heads and food and water and clothes and so on, the essentials. it doesn't matter she is still stressed. and i know that has a lot to do with it but i think there are other things too.
anyway, it seems like it is easier sometimes to walk away, but with kids you just can't and it sucks. |
I thought about that... walking away. It was never a serious thought... but one of those random feelings you have when you are mad. But I always realized that if I had left my wife, then g/f at the time, the same problems or even ones I hadn't thought of, would of just crept up with almost any other woman over time.
Plus I was madly in love with her as well. So I reasoned that the best course of action was communication, patience, and understanding.
This is what SWC is going to have to figure out on his own as well...