sinfinity, if you really put "lol" b/c of nervousness then i apologize for my comment about it. all i meant was it seemed like you weren't that bothered by it, looking at it from the outside i'm sure you can see my point.

as far as your whole situation goes, you screwed up..BUT you kinda have time on your side, and you really should use it. if you haven't been together but like a month then maybe he's not too invested that he won't be able to get past it. you really need to tell him and the fact that it was only kissing makes it SLIGHTLY better. you will have to regain trust and it's not going to be fun, trust me. and although it will hurt him, it's better to do it now rather than let him believe everything is great until some undetermined amount of time later and him find out. just grit your teeth and do it. you obviously feel bad about it or you wouldnt be so defensive towards the comments, and remorse is a good sign. seriously, i wish you the best of luck.