Sinfinity, I have a question. When you first registered/posted to this site, you make a comment of Nomad88 being your girlfriend. So is your boyfriend aware of your girlfriend and vise versa? Unless your boyfriend is open and aware of that situation, I would be more concerned about that.

As far as this situation goes, it is up to you if you want to tell him. Just know that it is a make or break deal, because if it is many years down the road and he finds out, you're definitely done with. You either come clean in the beginning and try to work it out. Or you hide it till the truth comes out and it bites you in the ass.

Your choice, you start with a honest and truthful relationship or you start it with absolutely nothing.