I have started working with my mom on getting myself more independant and saving money for cosmetology school and moving sowo to the San Francisco. We are also starting to pay off old credit card debt, where she's fronting the cash and I am going to have to work it off by doing work and chores for her that I am already doing once Or twice a month for her anyway.

The problem I am having is with my father. I had a good job going at Home depot and all of a Auden quit and ended up kind of regretting the move, but I had my reasons. But now I have been living here in my dads house for two plus years at age 25 with no steady progress paying my debts off until now, but even then I am still having to take care of it through my mom fronting cash for, while holding three part time jobs not being able to restrict myself to doin it on my own. I havnt been spending wisely with the money that I have earned through this temp jobs either. The orriginal plan when I moved in with my dad was ti pay these debts off.

But now, I was starting to make plans ti start moving and finding a job in San Francisco. But nothing has worked out yet. Presumably because of my credit report and consumer reports that are involved in most background checks. But also I feel I havnt taken enough effort to put myself out there either.

I am staying back and trying to find a job here back home for a few more months and then mo ing when my classes start in April, and hopefully sooner. So, my problem. I don't know how much longer my dad will let me stay here. And considering the ruff economy and him trying to keep his business afloat and paying the bills and making plans to rent out my sisters and soon my own room to make some more income, I have no clue when things are going to force me out before I am ready??!!!!

You can't just go groping away, You gotta preheat the oven before you stick in the turkey!

Excuse me, but, could you be a little more specific?