If you are seeking professional advice, I'd suggest speaking with a professional. However, if peer support is what you're after, my experience would be that the more sexually active your wife is the better. I see no need from her to abstain from masturbation while TTC. Sadly that responsibility is on you.
Also, be sure to wear loose-fitting underwear (no tighty-whities!); avoid hot or cold baths or showers, stick with luke-warm; drink lots of water and eat healthily. Moderate exercise will also help.
Since the frequency of sex is reduced, make sure you're taking advantage of the most fertile days of her cycle. And to increase the chances of conception, see if she can orgasm after you. The female orgasm helps draw in the semen.
Best of luck to you both! My wife & I had a difficult time conceiving our first child; she needed to go on fertility drugs to finally make it happen.
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