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Originally Posted by Cowboy Lover  I have to disagree with Johnny's statement that you have to get it right the first time or she won't let you try again. Practice makes perfect, and I think most women know that unless you do something that really hurts her. |
We experiment a lot and as you can imagine, things don't always go as planned. So I'm not too worried about it.
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Here are a couple of links to stories I wrote about my husband using a dildo on me. Keep in mind that just because I like it a certain way doesn't mean that your woman will. We each react differently to things and that is another reason I say she needs to find out what she likes the best first, before she can show you.
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Ya I totally understand that what one woman likes, another may not. Like I know from reading some of your posts you like big dildos and she isn't really into them. If I went out and bought a big ass one like her ex did (I believe it was an 8x6), she would never use it.
So obviously I can't just jump to conclusions because "Hey CL likes big dildos so my wife will to!!" But luckily she told me how much she disliked that one her ex got.
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Oh, and as for things that he's done with the dildo that kind of annoy me, I think what I found to be the least pleasurable is when he just does the same thing over and over again. Change the depth, speed of thrusting, and the angle at which you go at it. In short, use the dildo on her like you would your own cock.
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Ya I'm always trying to keep her guessing when I use my dick, so I doubt that will change with the dildo. The dildo is bendable, which is why I think it got such good reviews... I'll have to try changing the angles and see if I can hit a sweet spot...
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Also, DON'T put a cold dildo inside of her. Warm it up with your hands or keep it on a heating pad until you are ready to use it. Nothing ruins the moment more than cold rubber being pushed inside of me.
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She asked me to try a popsicle on her once and that didn't go over well
Maybe if I keep it under the pillow or the covers while I'm doing oral on her, it should be warm enough?
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On a side note, when I use a dildo whilst playing solo I alternate between pumping it in and out and just holding it inside of me as I use a vibe on my clit. It seems that the combination of those two things sets me off like a rocket.
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Ok so maybe keeping it inside her while using the clit vibe will work? I will have to try that.
This dildo I got has a vibe on it, so maybe I can turn it on while its in her? That may set her off big time maybe...