Well, something good happened today.
Same scenario as before, things get heated and I started working my magic on her. About 20 minutes in after she had gone once, she said to stop and kind of laid there. Jokingly, she said "I think I pulled a you." At first I was confused, but then I realized - she had to pee so bad it was effecting her concentration on what was happening. Not only that, but I was doing a mixture of oral + fingers on her at the time, so it was pretty much the exact same scenario as what happened to me.
She told me her thought process was:
"Wow this feels great."
"Eh, I have to pee..."
"I can hold it. I'm all right."
"Still feels good."
"Is it just not working cause I have to pee?"
"OH MY GOD I HAVE TO PEE."
Moral of the story is, it not only happened to her, but she also understands the way I was feeling on a much better level. Knowing that it happened to her next time things get heated makes me feel more confident about me being okay. Even this time my heart was going insane, and I wasn't too sure if I'd be okay at first, but then later I was fine and she ended up spawning the mood killer.
Also - another thing I tried that seemed to work was... I tend to masturbate pretty frequently (once a day at least) which, at times in the past, has kind of interfeared with my "speed" at getting done. AKA - if I masturbated in the morning, and hours later she comes over and things heat up, it would take a bit longer for me to finish.
I did something that I didn't think I could ever have the self control to do. I stopped masturbating for the last 6 days. I did this with the idea that when her and I get heated up again, that my dick would be more likely to explode in excitement instead of shrivvling cause it's freaked out. Know what I mean?
Although at first that theory didn't seem to work, ultimately it did and I was really revved up. But, she had to tinkle.
Anyway, I'm feeling better now that all of this happened. She joked with me and said "Well, between you and me we haven't had a successful time in a little bit now! But we'll see if that changes tomorrow."
Gahhhhhhhhh she couldn't get off work any sooner!