Well here's the story.

I lost my virginity to my girlfriend at the time about a month ago. We are really close, but she remembered back to the kinds of things she was thinking of just after she lost her virginity, and how getting sex out of her system helped her stop thinking of it.

So... we decided to be single, and she told me to basically go out and "explore;" to have some sex with some people and get it out of my system. Well... I've been working on it, but she always wants to hang out.

I'm having a party tonight and she kept dropping hints that she wanted to come too even though she couldn't drink (driving home) just to watch us play beerpong. I didn't know what to tell her so I ignored it.

If she's always around how am I supposed to "explore" anything? She told me to go explore, I agree, and I want to do it. What do you think would be a nice way to say it? Or imply it? Anything.

By the way she loves me.

"When I stood up to take a piss, they cleared the rest room. I'd walk down the street and traffic stopped, mouths gaped. You know why? I'm Rainbow fucking Randolph! That's why!" -- Rainbow Randolph, Death to Smoochy