Ok so I'm trying to take it slow with my boyfriend. Basically for now, the most I'll do is give him a hand job. I'm new to giving hand jobs and I want to give
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Ok so I'm trying to take it slow with my boyfriend. Basically for now, the most I'll do is give him a hand job. I'm new to giving hand jobs and I want to give him spectacular ones because that's all he'll be getting for a while. Any one have any tips or techniques for me?
Thanks
You could try searching some of the tube sites for "handjob compilations".....
But, like most things sexual......theres no end of variations in handjob/blowjob techniques
See how he reacts when you suck, cup, stroke or lick his balls or touch his ass??
Would a prostate massage offend him .... or send him into orbit
You could always ask him to masturbate in front of you and observe his methods
Why don't you just ask him what he likes and have fun taking it from there.....
Light travels faster than sound.....and that's why some people appear bright until you hear them speak
I have never given a handjob, except to myself I guess lol. But I kinda enjoy sometimes when we are in the shower and my girl's behind me, kinda giving me a reach around.
But, definitely don't ignore the balls...as mentioned.
I just always get timid as far as the balls go...:-( I'm warming up to licking a little more aggressively while blowing but as far as just a hand job, I'm always scared I'll be too rough-no good, sometimes a mood killer or I'll be too gentle/easy-no good, can be distracting "what is she doing down there? GRAB'em already!"
It so comes down to the guy and his preferences. I hate giving handjobs as the main attraction SO boring. I'd much rather be running my tongue up and down the shaft and feeling him throb in the back of my throat....BUT I guess I get the whole "waiting"/"taking it slow" thing....
Here's a reply I posted on a similar thread some time ago:
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Originally Posted by Cowboy Lover
Hmm, well, ok, let me explain a typical handjob at my house...
My husband and I lie on our sides, our naked bodies facing one another. He has one knee bent. I oil up my hands and start to move them over his ass and hips as my tongue explores his mouth.
My right hand finds the base of his shaft and I grip it firmly in my hand and start to glide up and down until his entire cock is slick with oil. The whole time I am doing this, I am using my tongue to stroke his in mirrored movements of what I'm doing with my hand.
Through a series of long & slow, short & fast, whisper-soft & forceful movements, I get my husband so worked up he is throbbing. Now, from there I can either finish him or not depending on how evil I feel that night.
Another technique involves me using the flat part of three fingers to massage his taint and ass, as my other hand strokes his shaft.
Sometimes I suck his fingers like there were tiny little cocks as I stroke him him with my other hand.
Sometimes I lick and suck his balls and ass as my hand pumps his organ until he explodes.
Or, I use a dildo in his ass or a finger while I jerk him off.
Yeah, handjobs can be a whole lotta fun if you do them right.
I love handjobs....I think variety is the key.....and women with long nails give the best handjobs IMO. That's why I enjoy just sitting back sometimes and having my wife use her hands on me....mmmm...mmmmm...GOOD.
I love getting them. I prefer grabbing just under the tip, but not on the tip. And not towards the base of the shaft... theres not much sensation down that far. Oil/lotion is good. I love when a girl uses a twisting motion instead of just up and down.
Twisting motion fooooor sure...I just get numb if the whole time its just up down up down up down...My advice honestly is as you doing it ask him to show you him self how he likes it. That helped a lot with a certain girl I was with she became a pro before 2 long. Oh and its not a stress ball too many girls I'v been with just act like they need a death grip on it and that is so not cool. A relaxed firm hand is how it should be, and when he says don't stop that means keep doing exactly what you doing with that movement, and pop in no time.
Oh and its not a stress ball too many girls I'v been with just act like they need a death grip on it and that is so not cool. A relaxed firm hand is how it should be, and when he says don't stop that means keep doing exactly what you doing with that movement, and pop in no time.
Exactly. I think barely gripping is worse than to tight. It makes me think they are not into it or something... not real sure.
It so comes down to the guy and his preferences. I hate giving handjobs as the main attraction SO boring. I'd much rather be running my tongue up and down the shaft and feeling him throb in the back of my throat....BUT I guess I get the whole "waiting"/"taking it slow" thing....
I like the tongue up and down the shaft suggestion lol I like the way you think hmm
I've never had any complaints... <--that's semi unrelated, I just haven't given head in a while and talking about it got me all...twitterpated as it were.
firm grip with the wrist parallel to the shaft. Ie the porno pre money shot handjob. I hope that makes sense, but what works for some will not work for others but there is no way to know without trying i guess.
.... or send him into orbit
hmm
<--that's semi unrelated, I just haven't given head in a while and talking about it got me all...twitterpated as it were.
