Hand Job Techniques

No having a penis, it's hard for women to appreciate just how sensitive one can be and just how tight to grasp it. It is the same for a man when he's manipulating a clitoris.

I think it's most helpful to have my partner "jerk off" my wrist, so I can feel just how tight he wants my fist on his cock.

I wish my dick was as big around as your dainty wrist.

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Don't use so much lubricant that it's so slippery you can't get enough friction. I love having her drag her thumb right down the middle of the bottom of my shaft when she's stroking me with a firm fist.

I think good communication is the answer, every guy is different and what worked for one may do nothing at all another.

Use lube, do a twisting motion, vary the speed, talk a bit dirty to him, massage his balls gently...lol well thats pretty much what I do....and it works for me

I've been told the "endless stroke" feels good. Just run your hand all the way down his penis and when you reach the base of the penis with your right hand start over with the left, creating an endless stroke... I'm not sure how to explain this but hopefully you get the idea!

Also you could get a toy pussy of some kind!

Study these Hand-job Techniques Too many girls don't know anything about hand jobs, all they do is go up and down. Pick about six or seven of the ones listed in that link and give him all of them. Listen close to his moans to figure out which one he likes the best. Be sure to try the "Twist and Shout", that looks like the best one to me.

And don't get him to cum too soon with hand jobs, When he cums, he won't be able to feel the sexual stimulation afterwards, so cumming basically ends your hand job session. Practice some tantric hand job sex, right before he cums, stop for a few minutes, then switch to a different hand job technique.

Just for an example, you can try these in order:

Endless Stroke
Twist and Shout
Glans Head Massage
Milking
Spot Pinch
Shaft

one thing i would say is please do not squeeze to hard. a few girls for me have death gripped and it kills. but as stated above to light is hard to be pleased by so find a happy medium and ask if he likes how hard you are gripping

outofmymind thanks a lot for that! i will show it to my girl, maybe she will stop seizing my balls so hard

Watch this one, Klixen

If the guy your wanking off is uncut, just make sure you don't pull his foreskin back too hard. It hurts ... a lot.

i love when she puts both hands on me....and i like when she changes things up, varies her grip/ speed/ position....she doesnt stay in one place too long, which i like. and i like her free hand to be touching other parts of my body. for instance , her standing behind me, stroking me,.. with her other hand rubbing my chest and stomach

no eternal reward will forgive us now for wasting the dawn...

This is the single most important peice of advice once can be given about an HJ, and this will make or break an HJ - Get into it. Don't just sit beside him and make it seem like a chore or a favor you're doing him just so he can get off and you can get back with whatever else it was you were doing.

Make out, grab other parts of his body, talk dirty to him, get your breasts out and let him fondle them. Give a little attention to the balls as well, lightly massage them. As long as you do that, just about anything you do to his penis is going to feel fantastic and get to the end result.

Lube it up too - and don't just stick with the tried and true Astroglide.. Sometimes some of that girly smelling lotion or conditioner is good for a nice change up (Or if you're in the shower..)