Hello CL!

I have never posted before but I`ve been a member for a while and I enjoy reading you all.

When I saw your post I tought I could help because me and my soulmate think we have been getting pretty good at anal sex!

We both have meat around the bones... lol (We both have a couple pounds to loose) but still having anal sex is just like a walk around the park for us. We basicaly use the same recipe to start things off... here are the ingredients if you are interested!

First we get things rolling with some nice cuddling & kissing, and then I usually go down and eat her pussy while also using my fingers, she loves the combination of the two. After a while I slowly run my tongue down near her ass while I still using my finger on her pussy. At this point she get's really excited so I take both of her legs and push them back to raise her ass up and I start licking and using my tongue creativly while I still penetrate her pussy with 2 fingers while using the other to stimulate her clit.

After a couple of minutes doing this she can't take it anymore and ask for my dick, she like to get it really hard and wet by giving me head. I then ask her if she wants me to take her in the ass, and the response is always a resounding YES!

At this point we get in a spoon position and I caress her tits and pussy from behind and I caress my way to her butt cheeks while kissing her neck and nibbling on her ear. I slide my hand between her cheek and start to rub her ass that is still wet from my tongue and slowly insert a finger a continue massaging it. When she is ready I get lube (Kamasutra Lube is our favorite) on my fingers and put some on my dick then I get the rest between her cheeks and continue to rub her ass and inserting a finger half way.

Now here is the critical part... I put my dick between her cheeks and slide it up and down between them and when it's time she grab my dick with her hand and align it perfectly where it shoud be and she pushes back her hips as my dick slowly get in, she is the one in control and she goes at her rythm she then tells me to get deeper or faster for her need. After a couple of trust it's like cutting threw butter with a hot knife. At this point we can change position, usually doggy style cause it's her favorite but we also sometimes do missionary we her legs raised up or other positions aswell if we feel more atlhetic. One way or another it always finishes with a exploding orgasm for both of us as she is caressing herself telling me to come "in" or "on" her ass depending how she feels. And we are lucky enough to come at the same time most of the time!

We have been together for 2 years now, she is 10 years older than me but never had anal sex before me, same thing for me I never gave anal before but we where pretty excited and intrigued by it... so we discovered and learned it together and I can say it's really enjoyable for both of us. It`s not something we do everyday but we enjoy it as much as possible.

When we first started we add some problem that was mostly related to the over use of lube. Most people are scared it will hurt and think a lot of lube will help but too much will make things worst, you don't need to use a lot cause it will cause slippery situations and it will be harder to get in or too easy to slide out. Sometimes we don't use lube at all, just the saliva from me eating her ass and her giving me head is enough.

In conclusion we think that the fact that she is controlling the "first insertion" is the secret of our success. Every one have their preferences or technique but this one works like a charm for us and if it can help you simplify your intercourse we will be happy to have helped out!

On these word, I salute you aswell as my soulmate who's been right beside me while I was writing this text.

Bud and Sweet Angel

P.S. Sorry for the typo, I`m bilingual but english is not my native language, I'm better at speaking it than writting... lol