We like to throw a dvd in from time to time to get things heated up. Even though it's not something she is interested in trying she really gets turned on watching two girls go at it or two girls with a guy. Something fun I like to do is to sit across the room or somewhere just out of reach for a couple of scenes until she is really worked up from watching and not being able to touch me. Normally by then she is very agressive and will pretty much tear my clothes off and have her way with me, lol!