I don't know about this.

I'd say it sounds more like it's written by a woman that thinks she's giving men what she wants or has been with some pretty simple guys only. A lot is pretty good, but there seems some glaring misconceptions a least for some guys.

By paragraph.

2. Naked, not a bad idea, but in the car while driving, or at the movies, is a mind and everything else blower.

3. spontaneity, good but not as good as a good long tease, and build up.

4. pretty good, no complaints.

5. is tease, so fills in for paragraph 3

6. more tease in kissing, as an inuendo is good.

7. no argument there

8-14, ok, pretty basic.

15. is not a given. I for example, since puerty, have no more sexual sensation at the base of my member than I do my elbow. Go for the stones instead, this when done according to his desires will send him into a stupor. If this is not ur experience guys, my apologies, no one is the same, so girls might want to ask what he wants at this point.

16-18. sounds good

19. Talking, most of sex is in the mind. Have u ever had a wet dream? Nothing physical happened, yet u came.

A girl getting u all wound up and then taking u out of her mouth and looking up, and asking how she's doing will make u melt as u watch her lips moving and her eyes making contact with urs with ur member wet and 1 1/2 inches from her lips. A little lick while the guy answers, and u pretty much control him like a remote controlled toy, if he hasn't completely melted like the wicked witch in the Wiz of Oz.

20. Fine

21. See 19

22. Ok

23. Can't speak for everyone, but have had deep throat several times, despite being pretty big. Didn't find it better than girls who knew how to apply pressure and had a good sense of rythm and eroticism.

Part II

1. Never tried it, but sounds nice.

2. Different for everyone I'd think

3. Tricky, takes a learned sucker.

4. Every guys dream

5. Visual recognition of the cumshot isn't marking, we're just very visual and to see the climax while climaxing adds to the excitment. An internal orgasm or one in a condom, is far less of a turn on, cuz we can't see it. Orgasming internally without condom is great, it's just the visual that adds a bit in the kink deparment.

6. again, hard to find a guy not turned on by that.

7. Thanking the guy for cumming sounds great, but any guy worth his salt after comming down from his endorphine high, should want to return the favor.

All in all, the key to good oral for a guy, is to turn him into a mindless idiot that can barely remember his own name.

To take control of him, like you now own his body, and he's completely no longer in control, is also another thing for folks like me.

Of course there are guys that want to be in control and none of this probably applies to them. I would imagine guys like this want to be more acitve, but from my expeience, passive during BJs is much better. It requires a really confident, artist though.