masturbation shouldn't "ruin" you.. i think it's natural (if not necessary) for guys to masturbate.
maybe you just found it hard to come through oral or a handjob because that's not what you wanted.. you said so yourself below.
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Originally Posted by CarelessDrewski  Exposition:
It wasn't until the next afternoon that we finally had straight intercourse and I finally came like I should have.
My concern is that I might have become too insensitive from over a decade of masturbating up to 3-5 times a day. I worry that a future girlfriend might offer oral or a handjob and I'll have to say "sorry, don't bother. It won't work anyway."
I mean, I guess it's better than always being premature, but still.
(By the way, this girl and I are not dating. We agreed it was a one-time thing and we're not seeing each other anymore. Sad, I suppose) |