What is your favourite position to have anal sex in?

Have not tried anal in quite awhile. We had the same problem as CL so after reading this thread we may have to try again.

My favorite is spooning (guess that's it's name) side by side.I brace my lower hand on her hip and can play with her breasts and clit with the other hand as we enjoy each other in the backdoor way

Practice makes perfect I always say. Doggy style is the way I find works best and fingering first one, then two, then three fingers loosens her up and then I just slip it right in. Not that hard to find for me.

The trick, if there is one, is to hold with one hand and slightly rub up and down while pressing lightly. Voila, you're inside! It's very much like vaginal sex, only tighter. And that's me, with the girth of a blunt instrument.

Hey there CL, I've gone there with both my current and previous girlfriend but in quite different ways. It was their preference for position not mine (hey, I'm up for it in any position)!!. For what it's worth, I think the females preference is key.

One preferred to lower herself onto me cowgirl style.

The other preferred spooning - in fact spooning I can thoroughly recommend. Once in position, she kind of reached around and maneuvered my willy into position and then I just pushed gently when she was ready.

I just noticed this thread is a year old, and is getting replies again. Did you ever get this issue worked out, CL?

My favorite is doggy style, but by the time we both get our big finish, it seems like we are in the opposite of missionary. We haven't really tried a lot of other positions, but eventually we will. We did try spooning a couple of times, but it didn't work out too well for us because of 2 different body types (atleast by my best guess).

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Nope, haven't really even tried it in ages because it's so frustrating.

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Shouldn't be a problem, as long as a man is hard enough. I have only had anal sex a few times, and one that was easy was straightforward cowgirl, only into her arse. She guided me, controlled the speed and depth of penetration, and it all fell into place. Perhaps you can try this if you enjoy anal sex, CL?

Hi CL I had the same problems a couple of times with my current boyfriend. He's the only man I've ever done anal with. His aim sometimes was not on the target or pushing to get in to fast. Can u say pain ? Try guiding him in with your hands. My favorite positions that help me is from behind on all fours or standing up, also cowgirl & reverse cowgirl. That way I have to do the aiming to get him in on doing cowgirl. It does take about a good 5 minutes for me to take him all in, & it is hard for me sometimes too get my aim also. But I sometimes prefer anal sex more than vaginal being I love it so much. I wish you all the luck & hope much success and enjoyment. There's more I could tell you to try and help you out, but it would be awfully long. Much love & happiness to you both.

I have had similar problems. My wife and I tried it once each way(she was wearing a strap-on). I think we both concluded that it's just not our thing. Having said that, we're not having enough sex to really enjoy experimentation. I am happy if I get any action at all

That's the position we use, partly because he's not as experienced with anal as I am, so I control the penetration. However he prefers to thrust from behind in the spoons position when he's ready to cum.

Thanks for all of your helpful suggestions, everyone. One thing I invested in was a set of butt plugs of varying sizes to try to make the target more obvious when it comes time for peenie thrusting. We haven't tried them out yet, but I'll let you know how it goes when we do.

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My husband prefers doggy style. But I prefer to be on top. That way I control how mush he can insert! If he had his way he would try to ram all of his 8". I can onlt take about half of his penis, even with plenty of lube. Anything more become painful!!!

My lady and I do this every few weeks, usually after she's been drinking (she says it helps her to do the "relaxing"). She'll whisper into my ear "I want you to fuck me up the ass when we get home!" Ahh... I love it when she's blunt.

Anyway, we had kind of the same problems starting out. She is on the petite side 5'0" and 105lbs; while I am 5'11" and don't have a small penis. We started out spooning. This is ideal because you can both relax on your sides while you slowly adjust to the penetration. Then once you're ready, you can start the fun. Our favorite position now begins with me sitting on the edge of the bed. She'll lube me and I'll lube her. She'll face away from me and grab my dick between her legs and guide me in while she sits on me. She'll ease me in until she's down and then she'll get to the relaxed point. Then I'll wrap my arms around her and lay backwards and scoot up onto the bed onto some pillows. She can put her feet down while I hold her up by her waist. I can thrust in and out of her pretty easily from this angle. It's basically a reclined-reverse-cowgirl with me supporting her weight.

I hope this helps you and wish you nothing but pleasure with your hubby.
~Steve

*by adding a vibrator in the vagina as well, it's almost as if your entire insides are vibrating around his penis. It really is a glorious experience.

I hate to sound forward as that is not my style but, although I tried to picture what the anal on the edge of the bed position looked like, I could not. I think I need to see some pictures of you doing it to fully understand.

Oh wait, what am I saying? You'd get into trouble if you posted them here. Don't post them. I'd hate to get you into trouble on your first day here.

Unless of course, if you actually want me to get you into trouble.

Barbwire a.k.a. Cowboy Lover