i'm a total submissive. i love being controlled (or being forced under his control) by my partner through being tied up, spanked, scratched and bitten.
I think the best part is being at the mercy of my partners whims where they can either choose to take their time over me teasing etc or ravishing me.
fantasy: being tied up and fucked across carpet.. carpet burn across the butt when being spanked and manhandled.. mmmmmmm

delicious.. would also me that the whole experience would be totally memorable as sitting down for the next few days would be a thrilling reminder ^^