So.. I told my boyfriend that he's got a huge cock

I don't post every often at all here. However I do read here a lot. I have to say I feel kinda bad for your BF. He sounds like would learn if you took the time to tell him what you like and what gets you off. You say him sucking and licking your pussy does nothing for you but you have him do it anyway because he might have "hang up's" on other things. To me that sounds like a bitch move. You have already stated you were. If I were him and you acted like that with me I would fuck you anyway I pleased because you seem to bitch at anything he seems to do sexually anyway. Your time with him could be so much better if you took the time to let him know when you like something without negative criticism. Tell him when his dick is in far enough and don't yell at him when he gets some worked up in trying to please you and goes a bit to deep. After all sex is meant to be fun and enjoyable for both of you. If you don't take the time now it won't change.

I think I am testing him, in a way doesn't everybody... Don't people get rejected because they're not attractive enough or not witty enough or their personal habits don't come up to scratch.

But more than testing him I kind of look at it as giving him opportunities, certainly I've given him the opportunity to do stuff sexually that he'd never experienced before.

I do expect a lot in return though, rather than tolerating stuff I prefer to be up front about it. I think relationships are meant to be a little bit of a struggle. To be honest he has a lot of funny ideas when it comes to sex so I think he needs to work through them.

As for suggesting that he would be better off leaving me... well I am genuinely hurt mainly I think because if you invest a little time and effort in trying to put down in words what's happening in your life for other people to read it does hurt when you read something like that.

Now I know you'll say you're just being honest and its your honest opinion ,, but in between the the appeal for understanding and suggesting that he'd be better off leaving me..I really did pick up on a little hint of malice in your post. And thats just my honest opinion.

I think its easy to forget sometimes how important it is to people to feel that they're fufilling their partner sexually. I feel a lot better and I think my bf has bounced back in a big way.

Thanks to everybody that posted in the last couple of days things have improved dramatically.

I don't want to be one of those people that only contibutes to message boards when they've got a problem. I got sense of satisfaction from writing my post but I think I need to find a different outlet in future.

So thanks again everyone..

bye

I'm sorry you feel the need to leave, but should you change your mind, we'll be here to welcome you back. Please, I meant what I wrote, but it was not intended to hurt. I wanted you to be aware of how your actions and reactions are affecting him. You seem to be very focused on yourself with regards to your sexual experiences, but you have to remember that your partner is in this too. Your pleasure is important. But so is his. And honestly I can't see how he can be enjoying this any more than you are.

Again, there was no malice intended. I wouldn't have posted at all if I didn't want to help. Just remember that you're both in this together. Or not at all.

Best of luck,
-heelfetish

If that were true, I'd still be here.