gangbangs

you can come over and i have too friends

The only time I participated in a gang bang was years ago. There was a chick in the bar where we hung out. There was a bed in the basement. She was the ony female there and several of my buds were hitting on her. I came in and was on a roll and talked her into going downstairs. We had sex and afterward I asked her if she'd help out my buddies. She said okay, if someone will bring me a beer, and the train stops at five (you gotta respect a chick with limits). I stayed upstairs a while and left while the third guy was still down there. She banged all five guys and after she came upstairs and was sitting at the bar another guy came in oblivious to what had happened earlier and he hit on her. She went home with him. I saw her the next week and she said "you guys really know how to treat a lady."

It wasn't like a porn with five naked guys mauling a girl at once, just one on one with everyone waiting their turn.

Did that once with a Finnish girl while her husband watched. It was very kinky. It was good that her husband was there as I think it gave her a sense of security.
It was also very different from what you see on porn films. That seems to be very much as CL described - men using a woman for their own sexual gratification.
I didn't know any of the men involved, and I have to admit, I did need a little alcohol to go along with it, but it was a lot of fun and the woman was treated very respectfully and she enjoyed being the centre of attention (although she was very busy and got tired towards the end ) I don't know if she ever did it again, but I'm sure it's an experience she will never forget.

I walked away from an opportunity like that years ago. I believe I made the right decision, but thinking back about what could have happened made for good wanking material.

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Actually there is more to that story. When I saw her the next week she had come to a benefit we were having for a club brother's widow. Long story short, I talked her and her girlfriend into going downstairs again, only that time I charged the guys who went down there. It was a benefit. I didn't keep a dime. They said they'd be "honored" to do it. The widow never found out. She'd have never accepted money earned that way, but I knew how badly she needed it.

I'd love a gangbang with 4 or 5 guys and hell they can paw me all they want. use me good i say

I couldn't agree more with 'totty_hoops' when she's says that gangbangs are one of those sexual things, that's sexier as a fantasy than it is in practice. Some things are better left in the fantasy realm I think. Besides, I prefer the intimacy of sex with a single partner.

I've liked the idea of this for years. My trouble has always been that I'm picky about my men and its hard to find men who I'm comfortable with who are also comfortable with each other.

"As soon as I had seen her, I was lost. For Beauty's wound is sharper than any weapon's, and it runs through the eyes down to the soul. It is through the eye that love's wound passes, and I now became a prey to a host of emotions..."

It takes a certain type of man to get naked and have sex in front of other men (I've done a few gangbags). The other problem I have noticed is performance anxiety, which I don't suffer from but many men do. At the three gangbangs I've been to more men watched and a lesser number had sex, but the most recent end of year one was quite different with maybe 40 or so men and several women sharing out three or four beds. A lot of sex happened that night, but I digress.

For me, having sex in front of an audience, be it a husband in a threesome or a group of men waiting (but not masturbating please) is a turn-on, but I think I'm in the minority. I am not much interested in watching others have sex, so generally when I've had my turn I go and find CJs husband and we have a talk! Trying to arrange a group of men you know who are comfortable enough to have sex in front of other men, and are actually able to get and stay hard would be an almost impossible ask.

At the year-end gangbang last year, what staggered me was that so many women were ready and willing to have sex with multiple strangers. Ages varied but most were late thirties or forties, I had sex with CJ who's a few years younger than me and is quite attractive with a nice figure, and one gorgeous young (late 20s) dark-skinned African woman was - well gorgeous. What's the odds that in one city, Sydney, that so many women would roll up for an orgy?