That was an excellent article you posted Ham, Thank you. I too fit the descriptions within. I was especially interested by this:
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Originally Posted by HammerHeart The husband typically finds his wife sexier than ever before - even when they first met - and the excitement of competing for his own wife highly erotic and exciting. There are accounts from wives that upon becoming hotwives, not only did they experience great sex and fun, but their husbands became more loving and romantic, bought them more gifts and vacations and started to take a greater interest in household duties - classical actions by a man seeking to gain a lady’s affection. Few wives can even in the slightest imagine that her no-nonsense husband who most definitely wears the pants in the house, possibly could be the type who would greet her with a passionate kiss in the early morning as she comes back to a picked-up house, knowing full well that his wife has just spent hours in bed being pleasured by one of her lovers! Now, before too many wives get their hopes up - only a minority of husbands - although a sizeable minority - would react in this way. And most husbands even in this minority will react with traditional jealous rage if he catches his wife cheating on him and where no hot wife arrangement has been discussed and agreed to in advance. The husband’s complete trust in his wife is fundamental for him to accept a hot wife arrangement. |
I had no idea that this type reaction was typical of Hotwife husbands! I can identify with many of the so called "classical actions". I do these things subconsciously, never aware that there could be an instinctual element at play.
As a result of my efforts and hers, our relationship is full of love and happiness - much more so than ANY of our Vanilla friends.