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Originally Posted by infornography Is the sex its self bad, or is the problem a lack of sensetivity? |
I was wondering that, as well.
Is the relationship fine & dandy in other areas? Could you both be going through the motions (i.e.
sex), when truly, your hearts and emotions are not into it.
Even in a strained relationship, sex is one of the things that re-connects two people, if only for a short time. If THAT isn't happening, could be time to re-evaluate your personal goals - things may not be as permanent as you thought.
I agree with Fromonkey - try to talk about it. After 2 1/2 years, its certainly worth going the extra mile to work things out. Just be prepared - sometimes this could indicate the beginning of the end. I really wish you luck,
and welcome to you AND Fromonkey!