If your GF is virgin , Ask for anal sex ?

Virginity is not merely technical or physical. It not simply an intact hymen membrane. If that were true then every girl who tears her hymen before having sex for the first time (which happens most of the time, actually) would "technically" and "physically" no longer be a virgin.

Choosing to remain a virgin means choosing to not engage in any kind of sexual activity, be it vaginal, anal, oral. Therefore, anyone who engages in anal sex as a way to "preserve" virginity is missing the entire point of being a virgin. Virginity means being sexually pure and innocent. If you've engaged in anal sex then you're very far from sexually innocent.

I totally agree with you on that.

I didnt mean to start an argument about this. The key point here is i said "technically" in my original post, and there is only and can only be 1 technical definition of virginity, which is the reason most gay rights groups have been and are still fighting for this to be changed as technically all gay people are always virgins. Also if you go completely technical on this matter, historically only women are ever virgins and can ever become not virgins as the word actually comes from a latin and french derivative of the word maiden. Since the original historical definitions of virgintiy were introduced there have been no "official" changes in that term, however socially we have adapted the term ourselves. The fact is any other definition, is merely a socially based opinion, even the medical source you cited above admits that.

Again can i just add, i am not stating that this is my view, just that this is the actual definition of the word.

People, especially women have all kinds of reasons for preserving their "virginity". Emotional, religious, psychological and cultural factors play a major role. And for many women that passage from virginity to non-virginity is really significant! These passages are worthy of the repect each women chooses for herself and her own body. Often these events of "first time" are moments the women will remember and often cherish for the rest of her life.

Changing back to the orginal question, anal seems a lot more heavy duty to me as compared with vaginal sex. I wouldn't recommend a guy to persuade a virgin to do anal as a pre-cursor to vaginal sex. First time experiences often set the tone for years to come, and a bad or uncomfortable experience can really be hurtful.

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