Originally Posted by Bluesy

I am so glad you said this! I'm getting tired of this "slimeballs get all the girls" crapola. Psychologically healthy, non-slimeballish women are not attracted to guys who treat them like shit Holy crimey, I've said it before and I'll say it again, there's no reason on earth why a genuinely nice guy who's got his head on straight (and enough confidence to let those wonderful qualities shine through) can't meet an equally fab gal. Some people lack social skills or consistently flounder in establishing connections with others for different reasons...there is something for this, it's called interpersonal therapy. There are classes, groups, and so on and so forth. There are always healthy solutions to these obstacles for those who are interested in them.