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Originally Posted by Makesmewonder  Actually escorts are vey much legal in my country, and yes I know what kind of escorts you're talking about. I just... want to avoid that. I don't want to have to pay for sex, or company for that matter. Besides, money isn't very much  . Though, I might consider it if it really helps me. And thanks for the compliment Dreama, it really lifted my spirits. |
I'll echo what the girls have said that most women are drawn to men who are mature and confident, so enough said there. Being short isn't a big issue (I'm 167cm), because (and this is true) that some of my past girls initially thought I was taller than I really am purely because they sensed my positive attitude towards life and love.
In terms of the escort, you should think about it. This has the potential to lift an emotional burden from your shoulders, and once lifted real girls may notice the difference. I've paid for sex myself in my younger years between relationships, and later when travelling. The escorts in our country, or at least the good ones, are very nice ladies who are generally a pleasure to be with.
I don't want you to go down a part you are very uncomfortable with, but if you think you can handle paying for sex then it may make a bigger difference to your emotional attitude and how others pick up on that attitude than you realise.