SexualForums.com

If your girl quit sex on you, would you break up?

I just want to know out of curiosity. Put yourself in that situation that your girl quit having sex with you. what would you do? (this topic can be answered bye girls as well, what

is part of a discussion in the Ask a Guy/Girl forum that includes topics on Need advice from a member of the opposite sex only they can help with? Ask away!.


Go Back   SexualForums.com > Sex Discussion > Ask a Guy/Girl

LinkBack Thread Tools
Unread 11-04-08   #1 (permalink)
Golden is offline

If your girl quit sex on you, would you break up?

I just want to know out of curiosity. Put yourself in that situation that your girl quit having sex with you. what would you do?

(this topic can be answered bye girls as well, what you do if your boyfriend quit sex on you?)

''When a man has sex with a woman so that he's behind her and she's facing a window. The man has his friend hide in the room. during the middle of the act the man pulls out and his friend takes his place so that the woman does not notice. The man then runs outside and waves to the woman from outside of the window''
Golden is offline  
Unread 11-04-08   #2 (permalink)
wawoo is offline


I will vote for McCain. See, I don't need your pussy here, I can screw the whole world.
wawoo is offline  
Unread 11-04-08   #3 (permalink)
Joe
Joe is offline


It would depend on the reason and how important the relationship was.

I left my first wife after several years without sex, but I'd asked her to give me a reason. She couldn't. I asked her to see a doctor or therapist. She wouldn't. I finally gave up and left after more than a dozen years. I wouldn't wait that long again.

If it was a new relationship, I wouldn't wait a month without good reason.
Joe is offline  
Unread 11-05-08   #4 (permalink)
BassDude is offline


Yup. (Unless it was obviously something I had done wrong and needed to correct.)

I once dated a girl who wanted to wait until she got married. I respected that. We made out a lot, but we only dated for about 2 months though. I dated one other girl where we ended up waiting almost 3 months before we banged it out...(turns out she was waiting on me and I was waiting on her...what can I say, I was young). Although I have to admit she was worth the wait (one of the two best lays I've ever had), I wouldn't wait that long again. Life is too friggin' short.

BD

Look for Wicked Truth's release "Into You" on iTunes, Rhapsody, Amazon, Napster, and eMusic.
BassDude is offline  
Unread 11-05-08   #5 (permalink)
tnoneclick is offline


If my gf quit sex on me, which mean she wants a break up.
tnoneclick is offline  
Unread 11-05-08   #6 (permalink)
Wckd_Beauty is offline


I wouldn't break up with my boyfriend if he wanted to quit sex for a while or completely. Our relationship is not based on sex so that wouldn't be a problem to me.

Out of chaos comes Beauty.

Ms. Hell on High Heels.
Wckd_Beauty is offline  
Unread 11-05-08   #7 (permalink)
suite91 is offline


Yup!

If she were just withholding sex for some reason then I would work to solve whatever the problem was, but just "I don't really want to have sex anymore." Gone!

Caution: Swinging causes confidence.
suite91 is offline  
Unread 11-05-08   #8 (permalink)
Rocket Queen is offline


If there was no good reason, I wouldn't leave him but I would take in a lover, if he wasn't happy with that then he could leave me.

~~~Bi - the best of both worlds~~~
Rocket Queen is offline  
Unread 11-05-08   #9 (permalink)
BassDude is offline


Quote:
Originally Posted by Wckd_Beauty View Post
I wouldn't break up with my boyfriend if he wanted to quit sex for a while or completely. Our relationship is not based on sex so that wouldn't be a problem to me.
So, if your BF said "I just don't enjoy sex and I never want to have sex again", you would just say "OK, sweetheart, we'll have a sexless relationship"? Sorry, I don't buy that. Unless you're a virgin now (which I don't believe you are), then I think you'd become quite frustrated and either dump him or do someone else. Think about it and reply. If not, it's only because you are so young and don't realize some things about life yet.

BD

Look for Wicked Truth's release "Into You" on iTunes, Rhapsody, Amazon, Napster, and eMusic.
BassDude is offline  
Unread 11-05-08   #10 (permalink)
BassDude is offline


Quote:
Originally Posted by suite91 View Post
Yup!

If she were just withholding sex for some reason then I would work to solve whatever the problem was, but just "I don't really want to have sex anymore." Gone!
Exactly...well said. Also, if a long-term or lifelong partner had some health problem or some other illness that made sex un-doable, then that's a different story altogether. I'd experiment and try to find some way to give them that joy. So, I guess it's hard to give a hard "yes" or "no" to some questions...a lot of it really depends on the circumstances.

BD

Look for Wicked Truth's release "Into You" on iTunes, Rhapsody, Amazon, Napster, and eMusic.
BassDude is offline  
Unread 11-05-08   #11 (permalink)
ninja08hippie is offline
Official SF Hugger


Well, in that case you are in a relationship. Part of a relationship is the physical part. It may seem shallow, but yes, you can't have a relationship without a physical relationship too.

Every gun that is made, every warship launched, every rocket fired signifies, in the final sense, a theft from those who hungery and are not fed, those who are cold and not clothed. - Dwight D. Eisenhower
ninja08hippie is offline  
Unread 11-05-08   #12 (permalink)
albere is offline


Sex is the icing on the cake of a relationship and boy do I have a sweet tooth! If I really loved her them then I would try to wear her down with being respectful and loving but there would come a time when I would leave. Maybe six months..
albere is offline  
Unread 11-08-08   #13 (permalink)
eandvk is offline


Of course Id try to find out why first, but if its just because,Id make sure the door didnt hit me on the ass on my way out!!
Contrary to some posters beliefs, IMO,sex is very important in a solid relationship.
eandvk is offline  
Unread 11-08-08   #14 (permalink)
Trixi is offline


It's obvious that most of you are fairly young and virile, but when you get "older" you might have a different answer. Just ask me and also Igor about it. We both went long spells with our spouses without sex. It was 12-14 years for me. I NEVER lost my desire for sex, but my husband came down with ED and completely stopped sexual relations - out of despair and shame. He convinced himself that I couldn't possibly want to be intimate with him because he couldn't get it up. I loved him and I knew he loved me, so I lived with it. The dam broke this summer and now with the help of Viagra (which he was too ashamed to request, so I asked for him) once in a while, we can have actual penetration, but sexual intercourse is only a small part of our (more or less daily) sexual relationship. We now do mostly oral and use toys and we are both very happy at the turn of events. If you really love someone and they love you back you deal with their problems.

For all the time we had no sex at all, I thought he had lost all interest, then he told me he masturbated almost daily. Boy was I surprised and happy to hear about that.
Trixi is offline  
Unread 11-08-08   #15 (permalink)
Dreama is offline


Quote:
Originally Posted by Trixi View Post
If you really love someone and they love you back you deal with their problems.
Exactly.

Shine on, you crazy diamond.
Dreama is offline  

Thread Tools



All times are GMT -4. The time now is 03:50 AM.

Latest Threads

Latest Posts

Latest Blogs


Please read the rules.


Copyright 2003-2010 SexualForums.com