Originally Posted by lol106
In my past relationships, I've been very kinky and open minded with my partners. Always safe of course, but when it comes to me wanting to cum in their mouth, its a different story. My first partner let me do it all the time, she found it as a turn on. My girlfriend now, im having trouble convincing her to let me do it. Its a giant turn on for me, always has been, So how should i go about asking her? I've tasted it infront of her, i've shot it into my mouth for her (i know seems weird, but eh i have no problem with it), or should i just let her work up to it? Has something similar happened to you like this with your significant other?
Thanks in advance!
The most important thing to do is talk to her and get to the reason why she doesn't want to do it. If she is unwilling to waiver, then I suggest leaving it alone.
If she is afraid of the volume I may have a good solution for you...
My g/f got literally traumatized when I came in her mouth... because of the volume.
But she didn't say anything for a long time... when she gave me bjs she stopped letting me finish in her mouth and started using her hand.
After awhile I asked why she never let me finish in her mouth anymore and she said she didn't really think about it... or realize it.. etc.
After several times of me asking her what was wrong she finally admitted it was the amount of cum I shoot and it scared her.
This obviously bothered me a lot, but I didn't want to do anything that made her uncomfortable. The problem was, there is a huge difference in being able to finish off in her mouth where it is warm and wet... and being finished off with her hand.
I thought long and hard about how I could ever enjoy that feeling again without making her uncomfortable.. then I came up with the perfect solution that works great for both of us.
After I have cummed once already from sex or a handjob... she will give me a blowjob and let me finish in her mouth.
Almost every guy hardly cums in any volume the second time... since there isn't much time for sperm buildup...
So obviously when I cum in her mouth not much comes out and she doesn't have to fear that she will choke.