1. Were you sexually abused as a child or adolescent?
NO
2. Do you regularly purchase romance novels or sexually explicit magazines?
NO
3. Have you stayed in a romantic relationship after it became emotionally or physically abusive?
NO
4. Do you often find yourself preoccupied with sexual thoughts or romantic daydreams?
YES
5. Do you feel that your sexual behavior is normal?
YES
6. Does your spouse (or significant other(s)) ever worry or complain about your sexual behavior?
NO
7. Do you have trouble stopping your sexual behavior when you know it is inappropriate?
NO
8. Do you ever feel bad about your sexual behavior?
ONLY THAT HUBBY, BECAUSE OF BIOLOGY, CAN'T GET AS MUCH PLEASURE FROM ME AS I CAN (AND DO) FROM HIM... OVER AND OVER AND OVER...
9. Has your sexual behavior ever created problems for you and your family?
A FEW TIMES HUBBY AND I HAVE BEEN, SHALL I SAY, ENGAGED IN RATHER INTENSE ACTIVITY AND FAMILY STOPPED BY UNANNOUNCED. WE DIDN'T ANSWER THE DOOR, SO I GUESS THAT MEANS YES.
10. Have you ever sought help for sexual behavior you did not like?
HECK NO, WHY?
11. Have you ever worried about people finding out about your sexual activities?
YES
12. Has anyone been hurt emotionally because of your sexual behavior?
NO
13. Have you ever participated in a sexual activity in exchange for money or gifts?
FROM HUBBY, YOU BET!
14. Do you have times when you act out sexually followed by periods of celibacy (no sex at all)?
YES, IT'S PART OF THE PLAY HUBBY AND I HAVE. IT DRIVES ME NUTS.
15. Have you made efforts to quit a type of sexual activity and failed?
NO
16. Do you hide some of your sexual behavior from others?
YOU BET, BUT NOT FROM ANYONE HERE.
17. Do you find yourself having multiple romantic relationships at the same time?
NO, HUBBY AND I ARE MONOGAMOUS.
18. Have you ever felt degraded by your sexual behavior?
NO, EMPOWERED.
19. Have sex or romantic fantasies been a way for you to escape your problems?
YES, THAT'S WHAT MAKES IT WONDERFUL. LIFE SUCKS. SO DOES SEX. IT'S AMAZING HOW THE FIRST SUCK IS BAD AND THE SECOND SUCK IS GOOD.
20. When you have sex, do you feel depressed afterwards?
ONLY WHEN WE STOP BECAUSE OF EXTERNAL COMITTMENTS.
21. Do you regularly engage in sado-masochistic behavior?
YES, IT'S PART OF OUR PLAY.
22. Has your sexual activity interfered with your family life?
SEE IMPACT ON FAMILY, ABOVE.
23. Have you been sexual with minors?
ARE YOU SICK? HELL NO.
24. Do you feel controlled by your sexual desire or fantasies of romance?
YES, AND ITS FIND BY ME, BECAUSE THERE ARE DIFFERRENT DEGREES OF CONTROL.
25. Do you ever think your sexual desire is stronger than you are?
YES, WHEN I WANT THEM TO BE... WHICH I GUESS MAKES MY ANSWER REALLY NO.
This has been fun.
Solla
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