Can't Maintain Erection at 20 with girl, but porn works?

heelfetish · 09-30-08

Best of luck, bro!

FlirtyChick · 09-30-08

Let 'er rip! (The sheets! LOL)

RoyaleWithCheese92 · 10-23-10

Id agree that the porn is the problem. Watching porn you see incredibly looking girls (most times) doing things you wish you could, i.e. 3 ways etc... and fantasy is not always reality. Id say cut the porno to when she isn't available, (out of town) special occasions if you will. But if that doesn't help then cut back on using palmala (hand). I think cutting the porn will solve it tho.

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Originally Posted by HardRocker

Laying off the porn will make it much easier to not masturbate. I'd be willing to bet, if you go three or four days with no porn and no beating the meat, you'll be loaded for bear.

Not to insinuate that she resembles a bear.

Let us know how that goes.

jessysmithpoo · 10-24-10

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Originally Posted by enz660

Im so upset right now, This the second time this has happened. I get an erection at first when I start making out and rubbing my penis against my girlfriend, then when I rub her tits, finger her, and shes ready for sex, i'm not hard. I don't know why at all because i'm usually very horny, have morning wood all the time, and maintain erections when watching porn as well, I just have no idea whats wrong with me. She was so upset, we tried it again 10 min later and I had an erection, but it was not maintained and we gave up for the night. Prolong Ejaculation. This was also the first time she let me have sex with her as well. I don't know what to do? Stop masturbating? Is there any over the counter prooduct I can take to get a very hard erection for a few hours so I can at least have sex with her? I hear this may be performance anxiety, but im not sure. If anyone can help that would be great.

Dude, relax. Meditate. Don't feel stressed man! That's the killer number one. Just relax, have a good time with your babe and fell comfortable first. Don't focus on sex in the first place, just try to make it a nice night anyway.

igor · 10-24-10

The original post was 2 years ago. If he hasn't solved his problem by now, I doubt he will.