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Sometimes alcohol can make me last longer. Sometimes I can't even seal the deal when I drink

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Unread 01-21-09   #16 (permalink)
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Sometimes alcohol can make me last longer. Sometimes I can't even seal the deal when I drink
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Unread 01-29-09   #17 (permalink)
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Hi, Maybe a dumb question, but have you tried drinking a little wine. It slows down everything for me.
Vodka is what I tried lately, but wine I agree that definitely works!
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Unread 01-29-09   #18 (permalink)
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I do what some girls said here: stop and go for something else. I usually make my wife cum a few times before I do so and that's licking her over and over again (which I do like!). Eventually I'll start feeling more confortable about it and will last longer. We often cum together in the end.

Sometimes though, and when she's got all control to herself, I'll just cum very quick. But I guess she knows what she's doing and that I'll cum quick. She may want it.
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Unread 02-27-09   #19 (permalink)
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I don't know what to do here. My friend has told me about stories where he can go on for hours without cumming when he is having sex with this girlfriend. But when I have sex, I almost instantly cum as soon as we start having sex. After I cum, we still have sex for another minute or two, but after that we need to stop since I lose my erection. I really really REALLY want to be able to please my girlfriend the best that I can, but I always cum right away and it is ruining these dreams of mine! Any suggestions? Thanks for any help at all
I have used a product called Pau Yuen Tong. It's a kind of balm that you apply a few hours before having sex. It's great if you know that you will be having sex later that night.

I used it once while my wife was away on business. I wanted to give her a surprise that night, so I applied it every few hours that day.

By the time came that night, it was amazing. I usually have a bit of a problem with getting too worked up. But that night I was giving it my "A game" for a good soild hour.

After a while we were both so tired as sweated that I decided to end it. I actually had to concentrate on cumming to finish the job.

One word of warning though, don't use too much of the stuff and only apply it to the underside your cock's head. Too much will numb the sensation and you may have a hard time maintaining your erection.
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Unread 02-27-09   #20 (permalink)
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I would have to say alcohol will help, to some extent. The other thing I can recommend is misionary style, and get as close as possible. Try to nibble her ear and kiss on her neck to help her arouse, also don't go like a rabbit. Take the long slow approach. Deep penetration seems to work best in my experience. Also as mentioned before hours may be an exageraton, unles he is a porn star. My longest was maybe a full hour, but I was way drunk. Stamina can be increased by the masturbation trick (mentioned a few times her "There's Something About Mary".) Hope some of this helps, wishing you luck.
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Unread 03-11-09   #21 (permalink)
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Alcohol does not work for everyone. It does not do much for me.
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Unread 05-13-09   #22 (permalink)
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Hold off when your about to cum ?
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Unread 06-19-09   #23 (permalink)
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I had this problem too cause when i masturabated (like every day), i would masturabate with the mind set to cum fast...then eventually it ended where while watching porn and masturbating, i would cum like 5 strokes of my dick. What I learned is that perhaps I conditioned or trained myself to cum fast so now im trying to retrain myself by gradually masturabting lightly then working my way up. So far i found that i can last alot longer when not viewing porn (another good reason i stopped that habit) so i will continue to practice to see if i can hold off longer
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Unread 06-21-09   #24 (permalink)
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I had this problem too cause when i masturabated (like every day), i would masturabate with the mind set to cum fast...then eventually it ended where while watching porn and masturbating, i would cum like 5 strokes of my dick. What I learned is that perhaps I conditioned or trained myself to cum fast so now im trying to retrain myself by gradually masturabting lightly then working my way up. So far i found that i can last alot longer when not viewing porn (another good reason i stopped that habit) so i will continue to practice to see if i can hold off longer
Dude, aren't you married now, like yesterday or today?



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