Penis Size....What is considered small? PLEASE ANSWER

Ok, so I have a penis that is 5.8inches 4.75 in girth and I am very insecure. I am a virgin and am curious to know what women think about this size.

What is your initial reaction?

Are you disappointed by this size?

Does it as though it wouldn't satisfy you?

Does it look bigger or smaller than what you thought the average was?

Overall, what do you think you'd prefer?

As well as size, how does hardness rank on your expectations for pleasure?

If you do a search under penis size, you will see we've talked about this topic quite a bit, here on SF. In the end, the conclusion is always the same. The OP thinks he has a small dick and no matter how many people tell him it's FINE, he won't believe it.

For that reason, I'm not going to answer your questions. Nope, can't do it.

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Hardly any girl is going to care about the size of dick man...It's how you use the damned thing!
Build a bridge and GET OVER IT! Geez, at over 5'' what are you complaining about anyway, that sounds like an average size to me...

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Yup. That's always the conclusion after pages and pages ad-nauseum around here, anything 5" or over is fine, and less ain't necessarily bad either.

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Congrats you're average.


A point of advice, you dick is not the principle tool you will use to get a girl to orgasm, your tongue on the other hand ...

I think that chart needs to be pinned!!!!

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where is the chart for ten inches men?

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There's a lot more to having sex than the size of your cock. A guy could have a ten-inch cock and if he was a lousy lover he still wouldn't be able to satisfy a woman.

By the way, the average dick is about 5.5 inches long.
The average vagina is also 5.5 inches long.

Kinda makes sense, doesn't it?

It's in the mens locker room with all the other inflated egos.

If that were true, I'd still be here.

The average size depends where you look for that information.

The average can change based on regional, local and world studies.

The average can vary based on where you measure from as well, and how you do the measurement!

That said, If you've measured the length correctly (typically the standard is the from the underside of the penis) and if you've measured the girth correctly (the typical standard is to actually average three measurements, one taken at the base, one in the middle, one at the head) then you're right in the average range and shouldn't worry unless your prospective girl has manged to have a string of larger than average boyfriends.

Even then, you really shouldn't "worry", but I'm just comment from the typical perspective which seems to not be "am I average over all?" so much as "am I going to be small compared to what she is used to?".

Scary how much I seem to know about the measuring process and everything that goes with it.

That's not accurate at all. Top of the penis, pelvic bone to tip.

Your way is the way its listed on wikipedia, as I recall, but I've seen it the other way in other scientific studies, measuring but putting the ruler where the scrotum connects and laying the penis on the ruler.

That said, I've also seen some say you should measure from the side.

Hey Simon...

I am about the same size as you... I'm a little over 6 in. long and my thickness is maybe a little bigger than normal because I have trouble fitting in normal sized condoms, but the big condoms are like trash bags on me... so I'm no porn star.

Before I was with my fiancé, she was with a guy who was really big. He loved his dick so much he had her measure it one time and he was somewhere around 8.5 inches and pretty thick...

Since we where friends before we ever had sex, I knew all about this guy and that she had already been with a guy with a huge dick.

Now I could of gone about this two different ways...

I could of made an issue out of it and kept having my g/f validating that my dick was big enough for her...

Instead I chose to not worry about it and just turn myself into the best lover she ever had. I taught her about her G-spot.. how to have multiple orgasms.. I had sex with her outdoors.. at her parents... I did things with her she had never done before (eventhough she was very sexually experienced)

Her ex with the big dick wants to literally kill me because he thinks I stole her away from him... we have to avoid places he hangs out when we go back to her hometown...

The fact is, he lost her because he treated her like shit and wasn't a very attentive lover...

If you take the time to learn what a woman wants in AND out of bed, the size of your dick doesn't matter - unless you make an issue out of it.

Women love confidence... if you keep acting like your dick is too small for the woman you are with, it will be a huge turnoff for her and will cause a lot of problems in your relationship.

i am 7in

interesting thread.

All i can say is the size of a mans penis has never been a factor for me. Its how you use it that matters!

The number 1 thing i do look at though...the size of his tongue

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