Is it "abnormal" NOT to enjoy anal sex?

Draw on your dick ?? You mean like with a pen?

...she put two little eyes on and was basically making a face; dickhead.

Sure, LP, ask me!

I have only met 2 girls that openly admit that they enjoy anal. And one of them only enjoys it apparently with me. IDK bout all of that.

But the other girl really LOVES it, it seems. I know a couple girls that dont even like anal play at all...even just around the rim.

I still think the majority of the public either has not done it or does not like it. It's just that this forum is filled with people that i wouldnt say are weird. But they are not quite the "general public" people on here tend to be more open.

Pride, reading your posts in various threads, it sounds like you've got girls lined up for a turn at being fucked by you. Wish I could play second string in case you ever sprain your dick or something.

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LMAO love it!

I'm not sure it's "normal" to not enjoy anal sex, but then again I'm absolutely sure of very little when it comes to sex. Having tried it in the past, I know that I don't enjoy anal (at least I didn't then). My SO is disinclined to try it, which is fine with me.

Lawdy-be! I'm "pre-80's" - Love anal (on occassion), swallow (unless my acid relfux is acting up), and prefer my muffin smooth as silk!

But am I "normal"? I'm not sure that enjoying anal sex is something that can honestly be considered "normal". In my opinion, it IS a rather sexually deviant action.

I really think a person who doesnt care for it is probably more in the norm than those of us who like it. But that's just my pre-80's opinion.

When I was a teenager, we didn't have MTV.
We had to take drugs and go to Rock Concerts!

Lol i wouldnt quite say that. I have been with a total of 7 girls. Of course thats in the course of like 8 months since i lost my virginity.

But i do know that by now i can easily get a girl. And i do honestly have a few girls that im sure if i really wanted to be blunt about it. I could call them up and get laid.

So its not as it appears. But i just happen to pay real close attention to the girl when i am with them so i know what they like. And i guess im pretty good at that from what i hear. And i also relate it to other girls when i find something that works i will try it and see if it works on others as well.

ok now on this forum the most treads are about anal sex and penis size(not the size is important, the way you use it thats the important thing). whats up with that? everybody likes something else, many people said that here

the anus is a region of your body with many nervous end, just like the head of the dick or the clit(not so many as those), it reacts with pleasure on stimulation. if u are in the mood and if you have enough trust in your partner you let him play with it(i don't mean intercours from the beginning). if you like it go on if not stop with it!

I like to play with the arse of my gf and she plays sometimes with mine. we enjoy it. theres nothing wrong in it

everything has its limits. for anal intercourse you need to spent some time training your anus to accept such a big thing as a dick. for that you can use a bunch of things.

Vanja to answer your question, what is the "norm" for most people. Well honestly I can tell you that to put a "norm" is hard to say. Since everybody is different. I enjoy anal, bondage, spankings, pain with my pleasure. Is that "norm" well for me it is.
Everybody has their own limits when it comes to adult playtime, to classify "norm" would be hard to do. I believe that alot has to do with the background of people, things that they have experianced or havent experianced in life.
Does it make you adnormal to not want to or draw the limit on anal, hell no!!!Some people like myself enjoy it fully. Anal play can be dangerous to your body if not done correctly or if your anus is not ready to accept a man's penis. Alot of foreplay, alot of lube etc.. Some will tell you anal sex hurts, well it should never hurt, if it does then something isnt right and it is your body telling you that.
I have friends that enjoy and dislike anal sex.
You have to do what you enjoy, just because you dont want to try anal sex and that is your personal limit, that in no way makes you adnormal in anyway. To try to classify what "most" sexually active people do in their sex life is extremely hard to do, since everybody is different.
Just my 2cents.

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...here we go;

Anal sex, 'abnormal' to NOT enjoy it.

You said "I don't know why it doesn't appeal to me" so, naturally, I ask...why not?

Is it too intimate?
Is it too dirty?
Is it just an odd feeling?

I presume at some point you and Bassdude have done it, and, if not with him, obviously, at some point, so, if you wouldn't mind just getting very personal about it, go through the experience and explain what you did and didn't like about it.

I have the thought in mind that you (my wife as well) don't let yourself enjoy it, and it is certainly something that is just not as simple and readily enjoyable, convenient, etc, as 'normal' sex, but that is a biased opinion coming from my mindset.

For example, I do not like a woman to just slide a finger up my ass. I want to be clean first, ready, work into it. After that, my god, a blow job and getting my ass fingered, rubbed, etc, is just insane.

In my dirty little mind, I see you getting ready for it, shower, prepare, etc, and you, like my wife did, just being overwhelmed with it and just losing your mind as you just give in to it and let Bassdude fuck your ass, slow, easy, faster, harder, etc.

As I say, my wife freaked out over a messy episode and that was that and it's just been this accepting of something I see as irrational and denying of, even if only occasionally, just incredible intensity and pleasure for us and I have never just accepted that. She won't. That's it and that's that. Frustrating more than anything.

Maybe other women can pipe in and add their thoughts, pro and con. Please feel free to do so.

And if this is uncomfortable, to rude or whatever, or out of line, just say say!

Thank you for finally asking me! (At least you are talking to me, LOL) I do not know what it is, it is just something I cannot fathom enjoying on a regular basis. I get so much pleasure from the orifices that I feel are intended for intercourse that I just cannot see why I need to use an exit only hole! Also, it is not something BD has ever had an intense desire to do, so I just feel we should leave it as it is.

So you see me in your "dirty little mind"?. Just so you know, I always prepare for sex and make sure that I am totally clean and lickable, even in the backdoor! I did recently have experience with a tongue there, and I will admit that it was fun, and I did enjoy it. Of course there were so many other delicious things going on at the time that I didn't give it a second thought.

Nothing is ever to rude to ask, just as no question is ever dumb. I am the kind of girl who will let you know, kindly because I like you, if you have crossed the line.

((kisses))

...ha!!! So, you DO like it up the tailpipe, eh


I hear you, and it IS abnormal in that it's just not 'regular' sex. Of course, blow jobs have nothing to do with 'regular' sex either and just think what a dark, cold world that would be without blow jobs and pussy licking!?

In any event, it's just something I like to do on occasion, probably because it is such a nasty, dirty thing to do. Plus, damn-it, the video the wife and I have, for Chrisakes, she was shaking like a leaf, trembling and was just cooing at me to 'Go, baby, gooo, fuck my azzzz..." It was simply tooooo hot to just move on and forget about it.



For example, the legendary Heather and her guy;

http://www.youporn.com/watch/21127/h...rst-anal-fuck/

The part where she tells hims she's starting to cum is just............hotter than all hell.

I dunno hun. Retracting "abnormal" and just saying methinks I will stick to my convictions!!

If/when I have that rear sexual awakening you will be the first to receive the video LOL