Men and anal play

Hey everybody i know many women enjoy anal play but how many straight men enjoy the same in return. I love watching my s/o take her 12 inch silicone dildo and sliding it in all the way and getting off. Now she has asked me a couple of times if I wanted to try the same. However I'm very hesitant towards doing so even though I know it would totally turn her on. Does anybody have any suggestions or any ideas for us? Your input would be helpful.

Ladies how do you really feel about seeing your guy take it? Is it a turn on, is this a regular part of your foreplay, or does this not do anything for you?

thank a million.

I personally would have to have a bucket under me..I love when I see guys enjoying anal play. My Husband has never let me use any toys but I have used my finger before, He enjoys is to a certain point. I think that he is a little self conscious still though. If you wanted to try using her toy use LOTS AND LOTS of lube and go with something small, and work up to something bigger if you enjoy it. Also if she jerks you off wile your inserting something in your ass it will help, that way your mind isn't completely on the anal aspect of it.. I say go have fun and enjoy it, If you don't like it you don't have to try again.

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Personally I love it. But you'll never know unless you try it for yourself. All the same safer anal sex techniques for women apply to us men as well. Start small, start slow, and use lots of good lube. A 12" dildo is probably not a great place to start. But since she's so experienced anally, I'm sure she can help you through your first few times.

If that were true, I'd still be here.

You normally have to pay for advice this good. Take it.

Thanks A1.

If that were true, I'd still be here.

But of course lad!

I'm actually rather curious about the activity as well, never done it, but am interested. The big deal is trusting your partner, and seeing as how I'm single, that isn't going to get explored for a while.

A wise decision. Of course, there's nothing to stop some solo butt luvin'. In fact, it might be a good idea to explore just exactly what you like and dislike, and discover your anal boundaries without the pressure of a partner in the mix. But it's so much more fun when it's your S/O doing the penetrating.

If that were true, I'd still be here.

I've thought about getting several sizes and working on it. But privacy is an issue until I can get my own place.

I love sodomizing my bedfellows

Forbidden things have a secret charm. ~Publius Cornelius Tacitus

Ah yes. I hear you on that one. Not the sort of thing that goes over well with the other guys, sadly.

If that were true, I'd still be here.

You don't have your own room? Or do you have nosy roomies/parental figures?

Shine on, you crazy diamond.

I love me some anal loving as for my DH nothing but a finger or two BUT we have talked about it and he seems willing to just try and see if he might like it!

Lost in my own world!!! Want to join??

Living at home is not the easiest thing in the world.

There are small toys you can use, at times when you are alone in the house.

Yeah, I vaguely remember that hardship. It's nice livin' in an apartment.

Shine on, you crazy diamond.