Men and anal play

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Ok my question about this lol I want to try this with my dh, its something that has just recently come up in convo!! The thought of me having that much control makes me wet How do I get hubby comfortable enough to go ahead with what we talked about! Im turning in a very dominate person hehe is this bad thing??

Lost in my own world!!! Want to join??

My wife always uses a vibrating anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms. I cum loads.

She also fucks me with a strap on. She loves doing it and talks dirty about fucking my ass. Our harness has a vibrator for stimulating her clitoris while she fucks me. She eith sucks my dick or gives me a handjob while she does me. We cum together.

Smaller toys are best and use lots and lots of lube.

Well, the next time you give him a BJ or a HJ, start touching behind his balls and slowly work back towards his ass. Then, if he hasn't objected to that, rub around it and maybe just start to stick a lubed finger in (no fingernails!). See how he responds. It hasn't happened to me yet but it would drive me wild!

If you're with a partner, that's definitely the way to start. I started by fingering myself while masturbating and eventually worked up to insertion of small objects. While that felt great, having it rubbed by a partner just took the pleasure to another level. I probably wouldn't have been as receptive at first if I hadn't practiced by myself.

Oh yeah - having your partner do something is a whole lot different than doing it yourself!

Here is a short tutorial I typed up a while back. It's how *I* learned..

The key to this is to take your time and go slow. You learn how to control your butt and schincter muscles. You learn how to RELAX THEM and you get used to the feeling of it all.
Anal play for beginners

Disclaimer: I am NOT a doctor and I do NOT play one on TV. This is the way *I* learned how to discover anal play. As usual care needs to be practiced. GO VERY SLOWLY.

First start off with a TRIMMED index finger. You may even want to put on a latex glove first to help make it even smoother. Use KY or the drug store brand of KY and lube the finger well. Place it VERY GENTLY near the anus and lightly circle the hole with the finger. DON'T INSERT YET. Just circle it for a few minutes. After a few minutes without insert, just put the finger over the anus and gently press a bit without entering. Just apply a bit of pressure.
Do this over and over a few times and after a few minutes SLOWLY begin to insert JUST THE FINGER *TIP* in about a quarter of an inch then take it out. Do this a few times then go a LITTLE further in. Repeat this until you have you whole finger in. DO NOT FORCE IT, IF HE OR SHE OR YOU SAYS STOP, STOP!

Within a week or so of trying this the person should be fairly used to the finger and inserting and pumping it in and out should become easy. Also try moving the finger around while inserted, back & forth,etc. Orgasms ARE VERY VERY INTENSE when you leave your finger or butt plug or dildo in.

Soon you will want to try something slightly bigger than your finger. Try your middle finger or graduate to a SMALL butt plug. Same rules apply to the new toy as did with the finger. Start off using the finger as usual then after getting loose begin with the plug.
Plugs have flared bottoms to prevent them from going all the way in. If you graduate to dildos later get ones with a flared base or ones that have the balls at the bottom. This prevents them from slipping all the way in. You don't need a trip to the ER to retrieve it, that would SUCK!
After a while you will become very used to anal play and you won't need much time to prep for your session. You'll loosen up very quickly after you learn how to relax your anal muscles. It takes me less than 5 minutes to go from start to riding a 8 inch silicon dildo like a bucking bronco!
GITTYUP LITTLE DOGGIE!

The key to learning anal play/sex is to TAKE YOUR TIME.

WOW, Thanks for the advice. MY BF recently brough this to my attention he wanted to try so....I apprecaite it.

I'd love to do my hubby in the arse....... It would totally turn me on, sadly he is not into even a lil pinky finger in the butt

its pretty fun and feels good
i have a small tube which is shaped like a dildo but isnt and ive stuff it up my ass a couple of times
its great feeling

I love my ass played with, have tried small toys in the past and always liked it. Definitely take the advice about lube though!

May the tongue of fury satisfy all your needs.......

I love anal play but im afraid I will never get it at home. I often mention to my wife that I like if her hands slip around that direction ,but she doesnt take the hint very well

Anal play is quite good, but you're missing something if you're using a "plain" dildo or butt-plug or carrot or cucumber or whatever. Men, you really NEED to try an anatomically-shaped prostate massager. The feeling is many times better than just shoving some random thing up your ass. To stimulate the prostate, you need something of the right shape (including SO's finger), not something large.

I enjoy anal activities. Me and The Wife have been expiermenting anally since her 18th birthday and she went and bought us some goodies. We have worked our way up and in the last 6 years we have come to enjoy role reversals and other little things like that. I have prostate massagers that are amazing and WILL leave you basically breathless. We also have other toys such as Butt Plugs, Anal Beads (I personally haven't used them, but TW really enjoys them), and of course a Strap On. With the building of the house, we decided to buy all new toys and are currently restocking, but trust me, anal toys for both of us are top priorty over the next few days!

Do it! Relax and enjoy it. I love to play with my lady's ass and she loves to play with mine. Nothing feels like an orgasm when she is sucking me off and pulling anal beads from my ass at the same time. UNBELIEVABLE! We saw a video from Chelseasdreams that I belong to where Chelsea was doing that to a stud. He couldn't breathe after his orgasm and she just kept swallowing his cock. She had to hold him down! You need some of that friend!
Cheers!