I think the trick here is to get the boyfriend in question to confront his own sexuality, for example coming to terms with masturbation as a way of learning about sex. I have been to strip clubs, and there are some very tasteful ones in a city I used to live in, and I was always aroused. In Australia everything comes off, and there was no doubt that my wife got some extra special attention on those evenings. But for someone who has yet to confront masturbation, or has other deep seated psychological issues around sex, the reaction to a sexually confident female such as a stripper may do more harm than good.
Once I realised the root cause of my wife's similar sexual problem, I used my patchy knowledge of the clinical branch of psychology to lead her towards recognising that she had an issue, and to persuade her to take action to address her issue (ie. watch some educational videos with me). That in itself was an achievement.
I cannot stress enough just how confronting sex can be to some, and if we push people who have yet to come to terms with their sexual personas, we run the risk that they may find sex becoming even more confronting, and they have nothing but negative feelings about it.
Sex should be fun, pleasurable and enjoyable, and the safest solution to a situation like this is to promote the joy, fun and pleasure of sex in a calm, peaceful, loving and caring manner. I don't believe that a strip club will achieve this.
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