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Orgasms bad for relationships??

Originally Posted by Cowboy Lover Well, if you keep acting like you are, a gal WILL leave you, but not because you made her orgasm. She may well leave you because you didn't care enough

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Unread 06-18-08   #16 (permalink)
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Well, if you keep acting like you are, a gal WILL leave you, but not because you made her orgasm.
She may well leave you because you didn't care enough whether she had an orgasm or not!
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Unread 06-18-08   #17 (permalink)
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Do you always get your wife to orgasm?
Yes, usually so. (Maybe FC will chime in?) I generally make sure she gets hers (often multiple times) before I get mine. And that doesn't include any pre or post "work" she might do with a vibe, etc. I'd say she has 2 - 6 orgasm's every time we have sex (on the higher end when we do lots of foreplay). She'd be gone by now if this article were true.

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Unread 06-18-08   #18 (permalink)
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A rock and a hard place. I don't want to hurt anyone. If orgasms are bad then I have to avoid them. I guess I was just trying to see if any girls here had negative (crash) feelings after intense orgasms - not immediately but say a day or two later. The world is so complicated lol.
Just because the world is complicated doesn't mean your life has to be complicated. Just get up every day and try to be the best you can and to hell with the rest. Fuck the news, you can't cry for everybody in the world... or empathize, or try to understand it all. It's a waste of life to try.

Write that down on a piece of wood and hang it on your refrigerator. Every time you walk by, grab it and whap yourself in the head with it.



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Unread 06-18-08   #19 (permalink)
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A rock and a hard place. I don't want to hurt anyone. If orgasms are bad then I have to avoid them. I guess I was just trying to see if any girls here had negative (crash) feelings after intense orgasms - not immediately but say a day or two later. The world is so complicated lol.
Dude. Quit. Seriously. Orgasms= good. Period. I've never had this happen. EVER. The more hubby and I do it, I feel more emotionally connected to him. This is just funny. Laugh with the rest of us, and stop being crazy, dude.

Shine on, you crazy diamond.
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Unread 06-18-08   #20 (permalink)
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Dude. Quit. Seriously. Orgasms= good. Period. I've never had this happen. EVER. The more hubby and I do it, I feel more emotionally connected to him. This is just funny. Laugh with the rest of us, and stop being crazy, dude.
Yeah...what she said!

But seriously...if you want to believe that article, that's your choice. That just means there's less competition for all the guys who actually want to hand out orgasms to the ladies.

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Unread 06-19-08   #21 (permalink)
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Dude. Quit. Seriously. Orgasms= good. Period. I've never had this happen. EVER. The more hubby and I do it, I feel more emotionally connected to him. This is just funny. Laugh with the rest of us, and stop being crazy, dude.
Do you feel this increased attachment after sex sessions with orgasms?

I know the article sounds ridiculous. Just trying to verify that it's wrong
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Unread 06-19-08   #22 (permalink)
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Oftentimes, CP25 will have up to a dozen orgasms when we're having fun. Know what happens a day or two later? She asks me, "when do I get to have another dozen?"
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Unread 06-19-08   #23 (permalink)
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Do you feel this increased attachment after sex sessions with orgasms?

I know the article sounds ridiculous. Just trying to verify that it's wrong
Yes we do feel closer, it makes our relationship feel more meaningful.
Have you used that piece of wood I suggested yet?



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Unread 06-19-08   #24 (permalink)
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Do you feel this increased attachment after sex sessions with orgasms?

I know the article sounds ridiculous. Just trying to verify that it's wrong
Hell yes. I never feel closer to my sweetie than after we've had a good romp. It's part of the bonding experience.

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Unread 06-20-08   #25 (permalink)
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I can only speak from my personal experience, of course, but I seriously doubt that orgasms are bad for relationships. When I have an orgasm, after the initial high I don't "crash" at all, but sort of mellow out into a nice afterglow that could last hours or even days depending on the intensity of the orgasm.

Jeez, the things people research these days.

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Unread 06-20-08   #26 (permalink)
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I call BS on this!
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Unread 06-20-08   #27 (permalink)
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Good call, loveit. I think we've covered this one and put it to rest.



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Unread 06-20-08   #28 (permalink)
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Ditto that! I think we can safely say the lack of orgasms is what's bad for a relationship.

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