I've tryed it and like it. Although, it's not that frequent anymore
It seems that i havn't taken enough time to really enjoy it and clean myself. But for the most part, I haver been
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Yes I've done Anal before. Actually me and my first girlfriend had anal sex first before trying virginal, I'd say she liked it just as much as regular intercourse. However she was that rare breed of girl that liked lubrication and full on insertion, which spoiled me when it came to attempting it with other girlfriends of which only one other liked it just as much; and this was before I realized the the majority of women who enjoy anal prefer gradual dilation first before full on penetration. Unfortunately because of my poor prior knowlege my ex-wife was completely put off after our only experience so its been quite a few years since I last enjoyed anal. However I don't mind since I only enjoy anal if the woman enjoys it just as much, otherwise I see it as awaste of both our time. Thats my two cents.
I'd really like to try it with my fiance. Not sure why it's so aluring, but I can't help it!
She's pretty much against it, but I do typically work a finger or thumb in there while giving oral. She's still pretty new at trying other things, but we have plenty of time to experiment!
Sometimes when she's really into the oral, she likes it. But I can't get away with it without really working her up.
Anal sex drives me nuts always has It's something I've always sought out and I've never really felt shy about asking the woman I'm with for it. Especially in more casual relationship its a deal breaker if she says no.I think you should be careful not to infantalise women, you should feel free to ask/persuade an adult woman to do something that she mightn't otherwise.
It does take a lot effort on the womans part I think and I respect that, and I'll own up to a bit of hypocracy when I say that my own arse is off limits.
I've never been on the receiving end of it, and I don't think that I'd like it. I hate even somebody patting me on the back, it's a weird thing that probably dates back to my childhood...
My ex liked it though, and I used to have Anal sex with her, maybe once or twice a week.
I voted "It's ok and I have it on regular bases as my SO loves it".
my fiance was my first for a lot of things including this, and im thankful he knew what he was doing and he knew how to properly prepare me for this before hand.
Now we do it about 3 times a month.
my personal belief is that if it is carefully and properly done by the right person it can be a wonderful first experience, but there are also some who will just not like it (properly done or not)
I love it. We started doing it 3 years ago. Then we did it every time during sex for the next 6 months. But it slowed down after that and we haven’t done it now for about 8 to 9 months. Sex is less frequent now but it is hotter then ever when it occurs. We still try new stuff and experiment.