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Originally Posted by Joe What I've always done is use the toy on my partner in the beginning, at least until/unless she's completely comfortable handling it herself. I think the way it usually works is by me asking how she likes it... "Show me...." And it seems I can never duplicate exactly what's shown to me, so she'll take over.  Often I'll still try with my wife, but she eventually takes command and lets me do other things.  |
Yup, that's been my experience too. When I first "introduced" my wife to ole Bugs Bunny, I blindfolded her and used it on her. (I let her hear it and feel me sliding it down her body for quite a while before I even got anywhere near her crotch with it.) She practically came off the bed when I first got it inside her.
Now, however she knows how she likes the Rabbit used on her much better than I do...practice makes perfect!

Now, I usually watch her use it on herself. I know what she likes with my fingers, because I can feel it. But if I'm using the Rabbit or another toy on her, I can't feel what she likes. She can, so she usually uses it on herself and I watch or do other things.
BD