i can't find the clit

i love eating out my SO and have been doing so for quite some time. i have looked for the clit and know were it should be but i can't find it. any tips? i really want to make my SO orgasm; she never has before.

Have her take your hand and show you where it is....

Not all clits are created equal. You look at some pics and they can be as noticeable as nipples on a breast. Then there are those (like my wife's) that you can barely feel, even when aroused. Look at an anatomy drawing on the web.

No matter the size, they are always located at the top where the lips meet...

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actually i did ask her..lol.. she doesn't know were it is either

Here you go, guys.

Shine on, you crazy diamond.

Well I was going to tell him that the clit was located in the middle of the anterior commisure of labia majoria and the openings of the paraurethal ducts, but I figured everyone knew that.

I'm going to write my girl an email now and get her all hot by telling her how I want to eat her vestibule of vagina and then slowly lick her perineal raphe... she'll be so wet...

Well if she does not know. I would suggest rubbing around where it "should" be. Ask her where the stimulation increases, that may help you find it. Also maybe her clit is just hidden under the hood well. If thats the case you will need to pull back the hood. Good luck

Use your finger, it's harder than the surrounding area. Even if it's really small you should still be able to feel it.

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Some are more noticeable then others. Easier to feel with your tongue. Keep working the spot with your tongue above where her inner lips meet shown on the diagram. Some women need 10-15 mins to orgasm. Keep area wet with a little saliva. Follow her reactions. She might need to learn to let go but it's a beautiful thing when she cums It's a great skill to master.

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Well, I'm sorry. If you don't know where it is, what better way to find out than a fucking diagram? There's nothing wrong with educating yourself.

Shine on, you crazy diamond.

That little pearl is only the glans of the clitoris, btw. The entire length of the clitoris--mostly hidden beneath the, ah (scrolls down to review the educational diagram kindly provided by Dreama) "prepuce of clitoris"--is 4-5". And please don't forget to pay some attention to the vestibule, frenulums, and all the other fun surrounding parts It's best not to zero in on the clit initially--warm her up first with some oral foreplay

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Rather than remove the very "Grey's Anatomy" but still explicit illustration of the female "area", I have moved this thread to the Adult Multimedia Forum.

Such a thread requires pictures, anyway.

Good call, Puss!

Shine on, you crazy diamond.