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Originally Posted by Puss_in_boots However, it seems to me that it's hard enough having committed relationship to just one person, let alone multiple partners. |
Bingo! My main point exactly. Relationships are hard work, even with just one partner.

I can't imagine how difficult it would be to make something like this actually work...I'd be too tired for sex.
And, I'm actually surprised that apparently so many couples are able to make swinging and other group sex activities "successful" relationship-wise. We fantasize a bit about group sex, but in reality I don't think I could actually see myself doing that. Now, I would certainly be open to the idea of going to a swinger party, watching everyone else, and doing my own partner, but I really don't think I'd WANT to trade partners. It just kind of triggers the *ick* factor for me in a realistic sense (STD risks, for instance). It would be hot to watch though, and it's a blast to fantasize about.
BD