i understand why you did it but the fact remains while you post such questions up, you are going to be getting the kind of purile response that stops everyday people from posting on your board...this place could become very active given the right sort of content but in my opinion "are you a vigin" isnt one of them

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the time for fun posts like that (and they can be fun in the right circumstance) is when you have a large member base and a few more sensible posts so people can see that these posts are tongue in cheek.... but to start off with them makes people think that is the primary role of the place when infact it is not.....