Couples-do you use sex toys?

I'm thinking we need to start using a sex toy. We need a new inspiration lately. Maybe a little vibe or something.

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If you love her, get her a Hitachi Magic Wand and a Gee-Whiz attachment.

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I think that I might be able to get my girl to use the vibrator we use on me this weekend. Not sure, but it might happen.

Yes we do play our very genuine . (ALWAYS) ROFL

I think a lot of women buy sex toys for the thrill of just owning something that look as ridiculous as the majority of them look now adays... I own a few sex toys but guys get more of a thrill out of them than I do...

Last time I wanked myself I used what I used the first time I wanked myself ... the handle of a hair brush...

Wow, compared to the rest of you, I own a whole toy store. I love my good toys and I resent my bad purchases, especially the much hyped very expensive ones that don't turn out to be as much fun as a $25 toy that I never get tired of.

Almost every one of my toys is from the clearance table at my local toy store. Oh the joy to be had from a $6 discount toy!

It took a while to figure out which ones were the good toys, and which ones weren't. It helps that at my local toy store, they will open the toys and let you see for yourself how they work, how strong the vibes are, how the controllers operate, and they give excellent advice. It makes a huge difference in finding quality toys.

From the toy box:

-Hitachi Magic Wand. It's horribly loud, but powerful. I dislike it all by itself. It's just too much and too hard. It needs an attachment.

-a wonderful jelly attachment that was made for a different wand massager that I've forced onto my Hitachi Magic Wand. It was on the sale table at my local toy store for $6, so I took the risk that it might not fit the Hitachi and is one of the best purchases of my life

-a Waal vibrator. I've replaced the hard plastic attachment with a much softer one from an another vibrating massager that happened to fit and feels much better. The Waal has an intense vibration that feels different than other vibing toys and is very quiet, which I love. It's very enjoyable. It also plugs in, so there isn't the battery draining issue of the vibrator becoming less and less powerful the closer to orgasm you get. That is very frustrating. Plus, always running out of charged batteries is annoying. I wish they made better attachments for it.

- an imitation Waal-styled massager whose vibrations didn't hold a candle to the Waal, but had better attachments that fit the Waal, so worthwile in the end, although expensive for just some attachments

- A few California Exotics Impulse controllers that came in a variety of sets that I use with lots of my toys. Best toy controllers I've ever found.

-A harness for wearable toys that I found on the clearance table at my local toy store. It's cheaply made and I could make a better one myself, and I may someday, I do love wearable toys. All the toy attachments all work with the California Exotic Impulse controllers, which is superior to the one that came with the set. Included was a vibrating dildo and a vibrating anal plug.

-Other toys that work with the California Exotics Impulse controllers: several vibrating bullets and an insertable vibrating anal toy

-two jelly cock rings that holds a bullet that also work on wearable toys

-Two rabbit style vibrators, both from California Exotics. One with the rotating beads, another a purple g-spot styled one with a head that moves in a circle (not actually turning, but draws a circle as it moves) that I call "Dr. Seuss." I don't even use the insertable part of the one with the rotating beads, I turn it around and just use the rabbit part on my clit. I prefer Dr. Seuss. I may just need a different model of rabbit.

-Five dildos in a variety of shapes, widths, and materials, used mainly for preparation for sex, or practicing various skills, not play-time itself

-another anal plug, non-vibrating

-Several very small discreet vibrators. I rarely use these, they all just vibe, no patterns and the vibing is weak. I become numb to the sensation quickly. They were a waste of money.

-black fleece-lined leather wrist and ankle straps. We've only used this once, he used them on me. Maybe someday we'll get around to using it again. I'd actually like to use them on him, which I brought up for the first time last week.

-a We-Vibe. This did not work for us. It was larger than expected and it hurt his penis. I do not use it on my own. I purchased this online and wish I had gone to my local toy store instead. It was expensive and a disappointment. I have read that it works very well with less girthy penises, or less small vaginas.

-lube shooters for anal sex. Not yet used.

-a silicone prostrate massager. Not yet used.

-a jelly adonis pouch. Not yet used.

- Gyneflex in regualr and firm. Not a toy, but for preparation for sex, so included. Not yet used.

- four jade and stone eggs and balls for practicing pompoir. Not yet used.

-a never used leather cock ring. I have no idea how this ended up in the toy box. I assume it was an extra thrown in with another purchase.

(I don't work for California Exotics, but I am a discerning shopper who discusses her purchases with the women at my local toy store. We all agree that we love this company. I've only purchased from their Impulse line for plug in controllers because I already know I love it and the toys are affordable and often on sale.)



Toys I'm interested in purchasing:

-one of those MP3 player controlled vibrating toys. I just want to know how powerful it is first, and how well it works, especially compared to the California Exotics Impulse controllers

-an inflatable rubber dildo or anal plug, for preparing for anal sex. Does anyone know how well these work for that?

-one of the wearable toys from the Impulse line. There are lots of them and they're more expensive than the other toys. I haven't gone to the toy store to shop for one yet.

If anyone has purchased any of these, could you leave a comparative review?

Wow, Petite, you must have a whole workshop for modifying and testing sex toys. That was a great post, especially for your first one.

The one I found most interesting that you mentioned was the MP3 controlled one. What do you do, select the rhythm of music you're in the mood for and apply it to the plugin?

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Can't find a sex store >.> thats why i dont have any toys, but i would like one. preferably a vaginal one.

Well, I like gadgets, and when I have a toy that just doesn't work or I think can be made even better, I just have to see if I can make it better!

There are a few MP3 player toys. With some of them you select music and plug it into your MP3 player and put some headphones on. It is supposed to vibe along with the beat. There is also one that vibes to atmospheric music, say for wearing under your clothes in a dance club or at a concert, or for playing music out loud in your bedroom. I love the concept, but having purchased many vibing toys that aren't strong enough or satisfying, I want to know how they compare before purchasing, especially since they're very expensive toys.

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Yes, I definitely have used sex toys with my partner. I have a hard time having an orgasm with sexual intercourse alone. We have used vibrating rings during intercourse which was very fun and pleasurable. Also, I like when my partner holds a vibrator up to my clitoris during sex. It definitely increases the sensation for me.

If you have never tried a vibrating erection ring, definitely look into it. It has improved our sex life.

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I read wonderful reviews of the We-Vibe, it is a popular couples toy. I have to add one caveat, if you're a tight fit because of a girthy penis or a small vagina, or both, it may not work at all. When we tried it, it was very uncomfortable to me and it hurt his penis when we tried it together. I found it useless as a use-alone toy.

Another great thing about cockrings that hold bullets is that you can turn almost any of your sex toys into a rabbit. Just slip it onto a dildo or a vibrator, use a high quality plug-in bullet with a good controller, and voila! Instant rabbit! It works well for me because I can adjust how far down the shaft the clit stimular is. Granted there aren't any twirling beads, but I was never into that feature myself.

Ya know, I just can't imagine trying to stick my cock in a pussy that already has a toy in it.

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Not really. Bunnie says they do not do much for her. She will use a "jelly" dildo if I am taking pictures and videos of her; I like the view and she enjoys pleasing my eyes.

Finally was able to get my girl to use a vibrator on me. Definitely an interesting, but fun experience lol.