After birth, you loose the needs?

After birth, you loose the needs and urge to have sex, do you mothers out there have felt the difficulty to achive orgasm after one or more pregnancy?

and if so what can you suggest to my wife?

BussyGuy

Well, that really depends on how long after birth your talking about. If it has only been a few months...give her some time. Her body has been used and abused and she is exhausted from taking care of a new baby. Her hormones are all out of wack. Help out with the baby...let her get some Mommy alone time...do the housework...tell her she is beautiful (a lot because I'm sure she doesn't feel it after all the changes her body has been through, even if she says she feels ok). Take her out somewhere nice. Let her know you appreciate all she is doing.

I haven't noticed any difference in achieving orgasm after the birth of my daughter... what I did notice was a feeling of being "touched out" by the baby and by the end of the day the last thing I wanted to do was have sex.

I don't think there is anything to suggest to your wife, I think it lies in your hands for now. She will come back to her old self, but you need to help her along with some of the suggestions I've made here. The best thing you can do is be patient and understanding, you could never imagine the changes that have happens too her though pregnancy and birth and motherhood.

I totally agree. Probably the most important thing to her right now is YOU re-affirming your love for her. Let her feel beautiful, & sexy. How she perceives herself is possibly the most important thing to her right now.
She's tired, perhaps even distant due to responsibilities, ... you would be surprised how making her feel good about herself will make her feel good , and exciting, in the bedroom.
Make it all about HER. It will be worth it to you. You will recieve the benefits, for sure.
These are the things that build your relationship, and make it last forever. Give it your best.

When I was a teenager, we didn't have MTV.
We had to take drugs and go to Rock Concerts!

does anyone know were i can get some fresh after birth i am making some soup.

that's SOOOOO totally disgusting...

When I was a teenager, we didn't have MTV.
We had to take drugs and go to Rock Concerts!

depands how you cook it.

So what's for dinner tonight Longnstrong? I'll bring the crackers!

We were just funning Mystic. Did you loose your appetite? L&S, splain the new avy?

LOL - Thorn, get your glasses!
It looks like he's got his head up his butt . . .

When I was a teenager, we didn't have MTV.
We had to take drugs and go to Rock Concerts!

::Whistle::

listen don't knock something before you try it, that isnt fair. i am going to send everyone some of my soup soon as i can find some afterbirth and some good blue cheese.

Ewwwww! I have totally lost my appetite for the day, thanks. Hey new diet plan!

LOL - Nah - old diet plan. It's called "bulimia"!

When I was a teenager, we didn't have MTV.
We had to take drugs and go to Rock Concerts!

hehehe