No DILDO's for women in relationships

Masturbation is me time. It is not so much about sex as just enjoying my body. It is a different type of turned on for me. I can be selfish, make myself feel good, without worrying about his feelings or needs. No matter how much sex I am getting I still have a good solid wank every now and again. : )

So does every guy, so I don't even understand why this question was asked

And, yes Donrite, you can use a sex doll if you want, just tell your partner you have my permission...

What Matters Most Is How Well You Walk Through The Fire. Bukowski

You know without getting back into the arguement about masturbation in a relationship. I think branding people 'insecure' simply because they don't want to indulge every sexual craze going is a bit lazy. Insecure and various other terms are tossed around pretty lightly in various threads. There are many reasons why your partner wouldn't want to see you mess around with a dildo being insecure not neccessarily one of them.

My partner, the one that I have known for a very long time, and am about to marry is somewhat insecure when it comes to sex. I know this well, and have known it for many years. Had I been talking about a sexual partner from my past that I had not known so well I might not have been so quick to analyze...

And I wouldn't use a dildo on myself through personal choice, it was just an example I was using. (I am not always totally sincere in my posts, sometimes I exaggerate for effect, or just because I think it sounds funny to me at the time,sorry for making you think I do, not that there is anything wrong with that...)

What Matters Most Is How Well You Walk Through The Fire. Bukowski

All I'm saying is I hope you're not diagnosing her as insecure just because she doesn't like to indulge every sexual fad going. Not everybody feels the need to push the limits sexually, especially if they're in a relationshp with their future spouse.

Of course not Sarah, our sexual problems go way deeper than her not satisfying every sexual whim I have. But that is best saved for another thread

So anyway Donrite, back to that blow up doll of yours...

What Matters Most Is How Well You Walk Through The Fire. Bukowski

Being honest my gf had a rabbit and it did make me feel very uneasy.
Im cool with dildo's which are the same size as i am or smaller but anything bigger hurts my feelings.

Im sure if i got a toy which had a tighter hole then my gf then she'd have a problem with it too.


The rabbit went missing at her home in italy, i think her mum found it and chucked it out so all is gud