Anal Q for the girls

Last night me and the other half had anal for the 2nd time it completly came outta no where as normally I feel werid about the subject but this time I was like do it do it sorta thing

Anyway my Question for the girls is

Have you found that you get off on Anal a little more then vag sex ?

nope, im unconfortable about anything to do with farting, poo, weeing (steriotyped english) uptight lol

I've had anal and it feel uncomfortable but not painful and it just felt like i was gonna poo myself...

To hear many religious people talk, one would think God created the torso, head, legs and arms, but the devil slapped on the genitals.

Same here!

Life is for living, so live it, and have fun doing it!

...a theory on this that I would appreciate comments on;

The feeling like you gotta go feeling is the whole point and some people like this and some don't. The women I have known who liked or loved anal were comfortable with and enjoyed that sensation; they let it go. They were more relaxed, easier going type people. If you've 'gone' prior you can 'let' go without letting go, so to speak.

The ones who have not liked it were, for lack of a better word, retentive, control types.
One of them loved the intensity of it until we had a little...accident...and it freaked her out and never again. She'd rather never feel that again than risk that. Again, some preparation is in order.

As a guy I am not comfortable with a woman playing with my azz unless I know I'm all clean. But, damn, when they slide a finger in there during a blow job, holy shit!

Also, there is a lady who wrote a book about it, the complete surrender of letting a guy fuck you in your azz and I've only read excerpts. Can't remember the author or title.

So, opinions? Agreement? Disagreement? Thoughts?

As an anal lover, a lot of it has to do with frame of mind. I love anal penetration, and when I'm into it, there is no similarities between anal and taking a crap. The 2 sensations are completely different. And I'm afraid if you think of it in those terms you may never fully enjoy it.

If that were true, I'd still be here.

To be honest, I only ever get that "going" feeling after he's already cum and he's pulling out of me. Throughout the duration of the anal sex itself, it feels great. The sensation of being deeply and completely filled in every way is wonderful. Very intense.

I do find that "going" feeling a little unnerving when it's happening --mainly because I have a brief moment of panic where I think "Oh no! What if this time I really am going!"-- but the feeling is gone so quickly and it's only at the very end. I think it's worth it for all the longer periods of very intense pleasure that come beforehand.

And to answer the original question: While I do greatly enjoy anal sex on a somewhat regular basis (maybe...once every week or two?), it doesn't begin to replace classic, hardcore, cock-in-pussy sex. To me, it'll always just be a fun "extra-curricular" sex act on the side.

I like watching the waves move through your body

Actually...the rectum varies in degree of sensitivity from person to person. So some people are going to feel total pleasure, some are going to feel mostly pleasure, and some are simply going to be in too much discomfort to get anything out of it. How it feels can vary for a person, too...as Heelfetish has said, frame of mind has something to do with it. If a person has recently had a BM, if they're highly aroused, if they're very much in the mood for anal penetration, it can make a normally uncomfortable experience enjoyable. But that isn't going to be the case for everyone. If you have a very sensitive rectum, it's always going to feel unpleasant.

I think your theory is interesting, but if you look at it from a biological perspective, that "gotta go" sensation is supposed to make us feel uncomfortable, it's a signal that you need to evacuate your bowels. We're not programmed to think of it as "sexy"

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Defintly a fun extra curricular sex act I guess for me being that it was only the 2nd time I agreed to do it I seemed to get a little more excited over it as time goes on that will prob change

The first time Thorn & I "accidentally" happened upon anal sex it took a couple seconds for me to acknowledge that....oooohhh - oh, my, --- I think this feels...good NAUGHTY AS HELL! - but good

There is DEFINITELY something very hot, sexy, about that first penetration.

We do it now - maybe once a month. - And when we do? - I get that same feeling..."Damn, Thorn! You are the M-A-N!!" - and I give him that 'backward glance' that's let's him know he's in full control

Awesome orgasms from anal (plus clitoral) stimulation.

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We had to take drugs and go to Rock Concerts!

I defintly agree with you on that one WHOA is all I can say

...because that feeling of letting go is exactly what feels so awesome about an orgasm, from a male perspective. I mean, the first time a male ejaculates it feels like you're pissing yourself. Then, you learn what it is, you know what it is and THAT ties into the post I wrote about what an orgasm feels like to a male, to me anyway; total and complete letting go. I read all these threads about guys having trouble cumming during a blow job or missionary or this position or that situation and it sounds like, to me, some reservation or holding back. Some guys have trouble pissing in a public restroom with another guy standing next to them. Gotta just let it go.

When I cum at the end of really good sex, emotional, intense, both of us really enjoying it, I am drained both physically and emotionally. It is heaven, the most alive feeling there is.

...another thing I love about it; it is so nasty, so naughty! Just once in awhile is fine. I'm not hard to please!

We have this video no one will ever see of me slowly entering her and she is just trembling and moaning and I my God-ing, little tiny bit by bit. You know what I'm talking about Rose, that letting it go, that relaxing, that take your breathe away intensity!?

It is the single most erotic piece of video on the planet.

LP, luv, I promise you that a finger up the bottom and a larger object can feel very dissimilar. For all you know, you might absolutely hate how anal stimulation with a dildo feels. Size matters when we're talking about anal pleasure/displeasure, and not all rectums are created alike. Come back and tell us how your first encounter with a strap-on goes, 'kay?

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The sexiest parts of my body are my brain, my heart, my spine, and my guts.

Alright LP.....enough teasing..when are you going to post it up

I for one LOVE the feeling of anal penetration...

It started back when i was experimenting while i masturbated at age 15. Id thought about it previously, but was worried i might damage myself or possibly be unsure of what it meant to me sexuality-wise. (ridiculous now I know)

id occasionally touched / teased and probed when the mood took my fancy but about 6 years ago i started taking the plunge (literally) and started using a vibrator in my ass.. I cannot describe the feeling i got once i had become more used to the size. The pressure inside felt sooo good, before i knew it I was practically riding the vibrator like a cock and found the sensation was causing my dick to harden so much, it felt like it was practically double its normal hard size!. It doesnt always feel good however, usually only doing the trick when i feel turned on quite a bit, mentally... and I can only ever come when i am playing with myself (though a couple of times it has felt so good I have been close to cumming just from the anal penetration).

Anyway,.. enough about me 'taking'... i think most people would rather not hear it lol.

I enjoy giving as much as recieving, i think that is where my fascination for trying it for myself started. I love the feeling of that warm, tight and smooth hole, just the dirtyness of seeing the face of my girlfriend getting into it really fires me up.

sigh... if only my current girlfriend was up for it or as openminded as some of my past lady friends.... double sigh.