Erection 101

First, let me explain a little bit about my situation. For atleast 2 hours every night, I have sex. Sometimes, I'll have sex 4-6 times within the day, other times I'll be up all night. I've noticed that in a day where I've had sex 2-3 times, it is a lot harder for me to keep an erection at night. Usually if I go soft, I simply transition into foreplay until I'm hard again. This generally happens without getting off and sometimes I'm simply not able to get hard again.

So, my question would be: Is this normal and would I want to seek some sort of natural stimulant? I love pleasing my girlfriend and she definately demands a lot of me sexually.

Dear Septa Scarabae

Get a vibrator an help her mastubate if she is horny when you are having touble getting it up. Different men can get an erection different numbers of times. For me, it also has to do with what is going on in my life.

I told my partner that XXX videos are my viagra, and that I am not risking the drug side effects. Half the time my partner wants to leave half her clothes on. Visualization is important for arousal and satiation, for many men, including me.

Does your handle have a partiular meaning?

that is a LOT of sex... i read somewhere that men can take anywhere form 2 minutes to 2 weeks after an orgasm to regain proper erection... the more times per day you go at it the harder it will be to stay hard the next time

My handle? No, no special meaning. It is a rather old internet handle that I have used for a good 7+ years.

I'm not so sure that it is a problem getting an erection. Just after having a certain amount of sex throughout the day, I can't hold the erection nearly as long. I can have sex 5 times prior, with no problems. Then I can be in the middle of sex and simply go flaccid.

What you said seems to make sense, BiBi. Honestly, I've never had sex this often before, so it really hasn't been a problem.