Which one come first sex or love in terms of making relationships ?

I would say love comes first,because how can you develope a relationship if you don't love that person,after that then sex will come.You can always have sex with a person without loving them,but on other hand you wouldn't be in a relationship with that person.It would be just 2 people meeting up just to have sex.To me I truely think that the sex would mean alot to eachother if there was love and a relationship there.

Howie_t

I keep coming back to this question and puzzling over it... I think I've figured out why I couldn't answer definitively..

Doesn't it depend on the person you're with??
With one partner sexual attraction and sex might come first and love following later, yet with a different person, maybe a deep abiding love happens first, and great sexual chemistry follows...
It seems to depend on the individual relationship, to me.

"He does not need opium. He has the gift of reverie." ~Anais Nin

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It seems to depend on the individual relationship, to me.

of course, A one night stand for sex alone.
Or love to build a relationship on.

Hiker

I agree, for different people and different views and such it could be different wether they have "love" first or sex that will lead to love, many options