anal fingering

A. Cutting fingernails is one option
B. Also consider using a latex covering of some kind. I don't think you can really beat a finger if it is long enough.

I have used a couple of toys. The Aneros is by far the best I have used. You can actually use that during intercourse or a blowjob with a partner. The partner can effectively move it as the man clenches and unclenches the muscles. Works a lot like a female thumb up there.

My guy likes my fingernails so cutting them is not an option for me so we have gone to toys as well.

We did it last night as a matter of fact! Awesome for us both. I didn't even sex it up but did him with a small plug. Easiest jacking off I have ever performed on him! His eyes were rolling back and oooohhhhhh the deep moans we were getting. Pretty intense sex, I even felt twinges and I repeat we did nothing to me. He got SOOOOO hot I was able to throw in a few extra things I like to have guys do as well. And that was just from a very small plug.

If you are going to try a prostrate message the prostrate is 2" - 3" past the anus and is found as you push your finger back towards your spine. You will most likely have to push against the rectum a bit to feel it as it may not be naturally residing against it. It feels like an acorn and if about 2" inches in size. The prostrate is not difficult to miss like the g-spot but it may not be reachable by you.

I've tried receiving, didn't like it much... boyfriend loves it though I get off on his moans and whines so it's good for both of us

I've done it a few times and it feels really good, and its not as messy as you think. I just put a condom on my finger and used lots of lube.

I never came across a man that wanted to take it rather than give it, but if that floats your boat. As for the actual technique of doing it remember the primary purpose of your bum and having a finger come out covered in poo is a definite turn off. My advice would be to sort out your back passage by yourself first , by having a shower and cleaning just inside an inch or so with warm wate and a finger. this will help avoid any embarresment. Also if you've already stimulated your bum yourself it will make it easier for her to do it.

If you're worried about your girlfriend having sharp nails, ask her to make a V with a finger and use a nuckle to penetrate you, this is obviously thicker than a finger but its tapered and it naturally limits how far insider you she can go. and its perfect for feeling pressure on your sphincer, if its not full penetration your looking for.

I've had anal sex in the past, and never particularly cared for it, although i did enjoy the gentle fingering leading up to it. If you find you're happy just being fingered you shouldn't feel like moving on to larger toys is a natural progression.

Unless you really have to go to the bathroom when you try this your finger is not going be covered in poop when you pull it out.

Unless you really have to go to the bathroom when you try this your finger is not going be covered in poop when you pull it out.

Not neccessarily covered in poo but the passage the finger is going through is going to have traces of Feces

There are reasons I keep a nailbrush and anti-bacterial cleanser at his...

i love getting my ass fingered when im being jerked off especially but havent tried to really locate the prostate myself. i think i know what ill be doing for the next while.

Hey if she has finger nails, that would rock!! She could scratch and everything!!!

Sorry, but the butt is an 'exit only' (unless you have a thing for human waste!)

.........Would be a new thing for ya huh?