Do you check up on your S/O

Just thought I would ask.

Hiker

You mean spy on them? No.

Nope

Barbwire a.k.a. Cowboy Lover

Not at all. Without trust, there is no relationship

No, I have no reason.

I used to with my ex. I couldn't trust him at all. He was a piece of shit. I don't have to now though

nope never

I don't have one right now, my most recent ex was a flirt so I would check up on her and stuff. So I broke up with her. We're still good friends though.

"When I stood up to take a piss, they cleared the rest room. I'd walk down the street and traffic stopped, mouths gaped. You know why? I'm Rainbow fucking Randolph! That's why!" -- Rainbow Randolph, Death to Smoochy

No.....

Nope. If he has done something he probably shouldn't have he eventually tells me, and vice versa.

I used to live with a man who would check my emails, cell phone messages, IM history, etc. Then when I started to delete the histories, he's say, "Why did you delete your IM history? You got something to hide?" It was a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation. The ironic thing was he was the one using IM to seek out other women to screw. I wasn't..but cheaters are notoriously untrusting of their SOs. They assume that since they are cheating and lying, that their SOs must be doing the same thing to them. They almost want them to in a way. It's a kind of cheater's guilt.

I can't say that the thought never crossed my mind, but I never have.
on the other hand she will pick up my work phone and go through the caller I.D., and if there is a message she will listen to it. which is all fine I have nothing to hide.
although she did listen to a message the ended with thankyou babedear, your a sweety.
it was a trucking co. secertery looking for loads. it ended up a fight that we now joke about, she will call me babedear and grin.

Nope. I trust her wholly and completely.

If that were true, I'd still be here.

No way,without trust you have nothing.Besides,we have an agreement that if he does mess with someone else,as long as he's honest and tells me,so nobody else tells me first,then I don't care because I know there's no way he'd leave me.He says nobody ever made him happy till now.

No sense being a prude,have fun while you can.......

Nope, not at all.

"Whether you think you can or think you can't, you're right." (Henry Ford)

Less and less, and perhaps not in the way that someone reading this might think. Its not so much that I am looking for something, as it is something might catch my eye and then it all goes down hill from there. I do have a history of mental illness, and I have taken medications for it. However, I believe this is no excuse, and am slowly making my way toward trust. As of right now, however, I trust my SO more than anyone else, a lot more.

I am not a trusting person in the first place, however. If the heavens opened up and God told me he wanted me to do something, even if it got me struck by lightning I'd probably ask him to prove to me that he was really "God" and not some knock off.

Call me crazy, lol, other people have.

"Flying is simple. You just throw yourself at the ground and miss."